xpaperxcutx Posted January 23, 2012 Posted January 23, 2012 The U.S. divorce rate is between 65-75%. Most of those are initiated by women. I guess those guys who waited weren't "keepers" after all. Nobody's talking about marriage here, so it's irrelevant.
xpaperxcutx Posted January 23, 2012 Posted January 23, 2012 Look OP, the problem isn't guys, the problem is you. If you keep meeting the same jerks over and over again, you have terrible people picker. Stop paying attention to outer appearances and pay attention to clues. Relationship minded guys do not hang out in bars and clubs, and they certainly don't play the " game". If anything they're only charming because they're trying to " charm" you. And I would not place all my eggs in one basket. If anything dating has taught me is that if there is no exclusivity, you will always only be an option.
Oxy Moronovich Posted January 23, 2012 Posted January 23, 2012 It's 50% and most divorces are initiated by women because it's usually men who f*ck up the marriage and start treating their wives like crap. It's not because their husbands are too nice, that's for sure. Then that reflects more badly on women than men. By choosing to marry those losers then it just shows most of those women make poor choices. So that means most women are bad at choosing husbands. So much for female intuition.
Oxy Moronovich Posted January 23, 2012 Posted January 23, 2012 Look OP, the problem isn't guys, the problem is you. If you keep meeting the same jerks over and over again, you have terrible people picker. This is probably the truest post in this whole thread.
Author louise_23 Posted January 23, 2012 Author Posted January 23, 2012 Look OP, the problem isn't guys, the problem is you. If you keep meeting the same jerks over and over again, you have terrible people picker. Stop paying attention to outer appearances and pay attention to clues. Relationship minded guys do not hang out in bars and clubs, and they certainly don't play the " game". If anything they're only charming because they're trying to " charm" you. And I would not place all my eggs in one basket. If anything dating has taught me is that if there is no exclusivity, you will always only be an option. calm down. re the first paragraph - i actually asked what i was doing wrong, not deny i was doing anything wrong. i know i seem a bit...well, stupid probably, but i was in a relationship from 16-23 so im a bit of a fish out of water. never had the chance to learn when i was younger. and not all charmers are good. under the definition of charmer is womanizer, go figure. as for placing my eggs in one basket, its more the choice of baskets in the first place im concerned with..
Author louise_23 Posted January 23, 2012 Author Posted January 23, 2012 Then that reflects more badly on women than men. By choosing to marry those losers then it just shows most of those women make poor choices. So that means most women are bad at choosing husbands. So much for female intuition. stop looking for an argument...
xpaperxcutx Posted January 23, 2012 Posted January 23, 2012 stop looking for an argument... I would not take someone who calls himself " moron-ovich" seriously. But yes, louise, don't date because you're looking for a relationship, you're only going to end up going home with frustration. Date to have fun, and a relationship will come out of it soon enough. Just make sure the people that you do date are relationship minded and not looking for a one-off.
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