darkrazor Posted June 2, 2004 Posted June 2, 2004 hi, im a new guy on the forum.. and i wanna share about my ended relationship with my gf.. we broke up about 14 hrs ago because we fought, argued and when this idea of breakin up got in, we sort of agreed to it... this wasnt the first time we have broke up, we have broken up about 3-4 times already, but in those cases, we usually get back again after a few minutes, or a few hours or maybe a week... but this time, uhh i think this is different... our relationship was already in the dumps lately, and this is the worse case scenerio for our relationship, as of now, i dont know what to do.. still thinkin and wondering .... im not sure if i want to return to her and repair our relationship, for im afraid that maybe soon, we'll have a silly ol fight again, and end up like this.. its because that when we fight, our pride is at stake, i dont know why but it seems like it, so either, we make peace with each other or we just sleep over the fight and forget about it in the morning... (2nd option doesnt work all the time) i know its normal to fight, but fighting a lot over silly things is downright... silly... another thing that im thinkin is moving on, forgetting about her and continue living my life, but i know this would be very hard on me.. and also for her especially if she would suddenly say that she wants us to be back together again.. it is difficult that when we are together, there is always a tendency to fight but sometimes, we can go for days, months even without a fight, uhh if im gonna choose the second option, i dont think i can be friends with her anymore.. it will just let the pain remain i think.... background of our relationship, we have been together for 1 yr, 5 months and 3 days, and we are having a long distance relationship because i have to move out for college, even before i moved out, (that was 1 yr ago) we were deciding if we are going to continue with the relationship, and the decision was yes.. and now we have broken up... we have broken up in chat... and havnt talked to her ever since.... though im still thinkin about our break up, im pretty sure it was really kind of a quick and careless decision, a decision people make when they are unstable, and they dont tend to think before they say something.. but what the heck... what should i do? thanks to anyone who can read and reply...
JustSoRight Posted June 3, 2004 Posted June 3, 2004 It's up to you. Do you want to be in a LDR in which you keep breaking up and getting back together? Petty fights do not normally end in a break up. I would say move on, but then again I don't know the whole story.
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