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Dealing with loss


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I lost my mom two years ago, in one month.

I used to want to have my bachelors degree, and then see where the wind would take me.

Somehow I sometimes want and like were I am taking myself and sometimes not.

I sometimes miss my mom so much, she used to make me look at things in a very open minded, expanded view. Sometimes the lack of her makes me feel like I am missing one part of my view.

After she died I changed friends, and got a new boyfriend.

All that movement sometimes makes me feel confused.

And I wonder if the path I am taking is the one in which I am ,and I am gonna be most happy.

Sometimes I'd like to make other decisions and go another way...

See, I started hanging out with my boyfriend eight months after my mom died.

Sometimes I wonder... Is he the one??.. Am I in the position to decide?

What would my mother have said?..

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If youre happy, then your mother would be happy for you. Simple, I guess. Do what makes you happy, stick with people that make you happy, who appreciate you. Dont forget to fix things if something is wrong. Do not let others hurt you too much, remember your needs, notice red flags.

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