Jump to content

Are these feelings normal?


While the thread author can add an update and reopen discussion, this thread was last posted in over a month ago. Want to continue the conversation? Feel free to start a new thread instead!

Recommended Posts

Posted
He likes women who know their place

And just what is your place, darling?

Posted
And just what is your place, darling?

 

I don't have one.

  • Author
Posted
Am I reading your posts correctly thinking that you have never met this person? For all you know he is some 70 year-old goat who gets off on teasing women online.

 

You are falling for your own fantasy, nothing more. You do need to take a reality check when you are arguing with someone you have never met in your life over what he is doing or isn't doing. It's kind of none of your business.

I didn't argue with him. Just told him it would have been nice to let someone with whom you have been flirting for quite a while know that you are seeing someone now. I consider that polite behavior.

Posted
I didn't argue with him. Just told him it would have been nice to let someone with whom you have been flirting for quite a while know that you are seeing someone now. I consider that polite behavior.

 

The thing is, to protect yourself you must realise the other person 'doesn't exist' until you meet him in person. He could be married, he could be even a 15 year-old. You just don't know.

 

Don't expect ANYTHING from anyone you have never met, the least of all polite behaviour. It's not because you should expect to be poorly treated but because in order to have expectations, you must have a picture of him in your mind. That picture is most likely to be completely inaccurate.

  • Author
Posted
The thing is, to protect yourself you must realise the other person 'doesn't exist' until you meet him in person. He could be married, he could be even a 15 year-old. You just don't know.

 

Don't expect ANYTHING from anyone you have never met, the least of all polite behaviour. It's not because you should expect to be poorly treated but because in order to have expectations, you must have a picture of him in your mind. That picture is most likely to be completely inaccurate.

I know all of this. Like I said, I didn't try to get involved in any kind of long-distance relationship. I didn't even want to have penpals. He started writing to me and at the beginning we were actually just having discussions about various topics and then I kind of started liking him. I've met people from the internet and very often I got a small surprise, and not always a good one, so I am aware that you should guard your feelings until you meet. It just happened... :o

Posted
I don't have one.

Yes, you do. *pats right side of queen-sized bed*:cool:

Posted
Haha. Why do I think you're one of the bitter misogynists who posts here? Because if you were, it would make your choice of posters you admire somewhat ironic to put it gently.

 

 

Why? Is there something wrong with these chicks? Do they have the clap or something?

 

Nothing wrong with them...

 

I'm not familiar with all of the posters, but just based on a spontaneous mental snapshot, they are generally women who put a premium on initial physical attraction.

 

Not exactly the type of poster a bitter man would admire. However, I do think I have you mixed up with someone else...

Posted
Nothing wrong with them...

 

I'm not familiar with all of the posters, but just based on a spontaneous mental snapshot, they are generally women who put a premium on initial physical attraction.

Pfft. A physically unattractive dude can still make a woman have an ecstasy in their panties. There are two types of women in the world, my friend. Those that honestly state they are attracted to me; and those that pretend they are not attracted to me.

Not exactly the type of poster a bitter man would admire. However, I do think I have you mixed up with someone else...

Maybe you got me mixed up with Untouchable Fire.

Posted
Yes, you do. *pats right side of queen-sized bed*:cool:

 

That's very sweet but I'm not into stetsons - which is what I imagine everyone wears in Texas of course ;)

Posted

I'll let you be the one wearing the stetson. Many women are surprised when they find out how much of a turn-on wearing stetsons in bed can be.

×
×
  • Create New...