nessaaa Posted January 22, 2012 Posted January 22, 2012 Exotic looking men! Middle Eastern, West Indian, Latin ect...UFC bulit
Dust Posted January 22, 2012 Posted January 22, 2012 So, if Dust were about to beat you in a FAIR fight, you'd go home and grab your spiky bat to start an unfair fight? So, you only have fights in your front yard, brave boy? What happened to your spiky brain? No...? Okay. No brain fights. No brain. Got it. RecordProducer has some real fire in her! I need that in a girl.
kaylan Posted January 22, 2012 Posted January 22, 2012 (edited) Don't you have anything to say except parroting ancient 4chan memes? I'm not one of those people who gets mad at words on a computer screen. Especially from a frumpy looking attention whore like you. You know what, I'll be the better man here. Do you like men with effeminate Michael Jackson body language? Can you benchpress 180 lbs? Do you have a high-paying job? Do you like to beat and dominate milquetoast men in the bedroom? What do you think of "Lady-Boys"? I think I may have someone to hook you up with (thank me later Kaylan). Why so serious bro? Edited January 22, 2012 by kaylan
kaylan Posted January 22, 2012 Posted January 22, 2012 (edited) ^ Cyber- White knight. If Taramere did not claim to be female and use a few pictures that you have no way of knowing are really her, her posts would be invisible/ignored by everyone. But make one post saying "I'm a girl!" and suddenly you become the funniest, charming, most interesting poster on an internet forum. Maybe your avatar is starting to rub off on you Dust Being a girl does not automatically make someone a valued poster. Making good posts does.Hell I have had a few posters give me kudos in threads for my posts as well as PM me to say they like my threads and what I have to say.Maybe if youd stop being so negative and abrasive sometimes, then people would take you seriously. Edited January 22, 2012 by kaylan
Taramere Posted January 22, 2012 Posted January 22, 2012 I have yet to see you engage me in any intellectual or worthwhile fashion. As though I have some duty to try drawing worthwhile conversation out of somebody above voting age who carries on like a maladjusted, misunderstood 14 year old delinquent. If I want intellectual or worthwhile conversation, I'll have it with people who don't need help and coaxing into the adult world. You just carry on throwing out trollchat, wishing AIDS on people and posting pictures of yourself with baseball bats. You may not be a convincing gangster, but it's still more authentic than any of your attempts to play with grown ups.
Taramere Posted January 22, 2012 Posted January 22, 2012 First time I've seen you say anything vulgar! I adjust my level according to the audience - or, in that particular case, the topic. Past professional requirement. Wide range of guys too, never thought a woman who's into Eric Bana would also like Will Smith. They both have an adorable quality designed to flick emotional buttons quickly and easily. I usually like darker haired, slim women who don't seem retarded when they speak. Olivia Wilde is a good example. http://magtrends.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/Olivia-Wilde-8.jpg Her presence alone blinded me to how bad cowboys and aliens was. I actually walked out of the theater thinking it was a good movie. She has that sharp-without-being-hard, smart look. I think you'd also have liked Catherine McCormack when she was a bit younger...not that she's exactly ancient now. She played William Wallace's wife Moran in Braveheart. http://ia.media-imdb.com/images/M/MV5BODQ2MDE4MjIxOV5BMl5BanBnXkFtZTcwMjE4MDcyNA@@._V1._SY314_CR207,0,214,314_.jpg Charlotte Rampling is another who had that look. http://photos.last-video.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/charlotte-rampling-jeune.jpg
Buttercup84 Posted January 22, 2012 Posted January 22, 2012 I've dated (and am currently dating) guys who fit into my broad-spectrum preference--those who are Indian. The one who was my 'ideal' in terms of looks was my ex. He was around 5'8", slim, gorgeous cheekbones, flawless skin that made me think of cinnamon. He was a 'pretty boy'. My current BF is rather different from the pretty boy look but no less attractive for that. He has lots of hair , and is 5'5". While he's slim, he also has a bit of a stout look about him, particularly in his face sometimes (chubby cheeks! ). I couldn't find a picture of someone who looks like him so I just put in a picture of us. https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/378996_243850255669534_100001336831247_592019_1902588636_n.jpg Oh you two are so cute !
Buttercup84 Posted January 22, 2012 Posted January 22, 2012 I do not really have a type look wise . I think ( nice tattoos are hot ) nice arms , taller than me ( I am 5.4 and love to rest my head against a mans chest when he holds me ) I do not care about a six pack , but they do have to look after themselvs , as I do . I like dark hair and a cute smile . I think I like guys who look a bit tough but are big teddy bears on the inside I have been attracted to men of all races . My ex was Australian , 1.88 had tattoos on both arms and a good body but not the male model body . I wasn't that attracted to him first but the more I fell in love , the more I found him attractive .
Taramere Posted January 22, 2012 Posted January 22, 2012 Being a girl does not automatically make someone a valued poster. Making good posts does.Hell I have had a few posters give me kudos in threads for my posts as well as PM me to say they like my threads and what I have to say.Maybe if youd stop being so negative and abrasive sometimes, then people would take you seriously. Exactly. For the record (with regard to that post you quoted) I don't post pictures of myself here. I'm here to express opinions, and read other opinions, about subjects of general interest, not to hear what other people think about what I look like. If men like a woman's posts they'll often start to think and talk of the woman as being attractive, intelligent, talented etc...much as Dust does. Even if they have no idea what she looks like. In the same way as people in real life tend to perceive people as being more attractive, intelligent, talented and so on when they like their personalities. Most of the time, these compliments and insults are really just a way of saying "I like/don't like that poster". Anybody who takes humbrage about what they see as an undeserving poster being perceived as charming, funny or interesting is missing very basic points about human nature and interactions. There's no point in trying to dictate who and what other people should find interesting or funny. These are matters of personal taste.
razz90 Posted January 22, 2012 Posted January 22, 2012 I tend to go for tall guys.. I'm 5"2 but most guys i've been with have been at least 6 foot! the only problem is sometimes it strains my neck when kissing them standing up I also have a thing for blond hair and blue eyes. And guys who have some muscle but are not too bulky. Guys who are always in the gym trying to get as big as possible are a turn off. Also, quite a few women have said they find the english accent sexy...any guys who feel the same??
Author counterman Posted January 22, 2012 Author Posted January 22, 2012 Wow, overwhelming responses Thanks for sharing! tigressA, you and your bf are too adorable Feels my heart with hope Although there are some shared ideal looks, such as Jude Law, Daniel Craig (two I would agree are very handsome), it's lovely seeing a range that people prefer. It's not all doom and gloom for those guys or girls who think that the oposite sex only wants the one type. To elaborate more, my ideal girl would be between 5'1" and 5'7", brunette, blue or brown eyes, slim and toned, and has that sort of girl next door look. She would look more intelligent than "hot", still attractive but not in a provocative kind of way. Alison Brie best shows what I mean. I am attracted to other girls who don't fit that but with these girls, there's just greater attraction I can't describe. I don't know whether I would end up with someone who looks similar. Maybe my great attraction spurs from that the fact that my first ever crush was a girl who was brunette, brown eyes and had the cuttest smile? I was only in kindergarten. My ex was similar to the look I described but not quite. I have had only a few dates with these girls which I guess is because I try to hard to impress them and really let my emotions take over; I get nervous. It's something I'm still working on Oh and I love the British accent. One that springs to mind instantly is Kate Beckinsale. There's just something about a girl with that accent or an Irish one, drives me crazy.
gaius Posted January 22, 2012 Posted January 22, 2012 Somebody PMd me the other day expressing disappointment in me for engaging a "Stormfront" type like wolf18 in any shape or form. You seem to get all the busy bodies bothering you. She has that sharp-without-being-hard, smart look. I think you'd also have liked Catherine McCormack when she was a bit younger...not that she's exactly ancient now. She played William Wallace's wife Moran in Braveheart. http://ia.media-imdb.com/images/M/MV5BODQ2MDE4MjIxOV5BMl5BanBnXkFtZTcwMjE4MDcyNA@@._V1._SY314_CR207,0,214,314_.jpg Charlotte Rampling is another who had that look. http://photos.last-video.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/charlotte-rampling-jeune.jpg You hit that one right on the nose, it's a shame you don't really see Catherine in movies anymore. Charlotte too, she was quite stunning in her day. You find Adrian Grenier of Entourage fame attractive at all? http://img2.timeinc.net/people/i/2008/stylewatch/gallery/onset/080908/adrian_grenier300.jpg
Star Gazer Posted January 22, 2012 Posted January 22, 2012 My ideal type physically is male, 6'-6'4'', not-blonde/ginger, and built like a quarterback.
Taramere Posted January 22, 2012 Posted January 22, 2012 You hit that one right on the nose, it's a shame you don't really see Catherine in movies anymore. Charlotte too, she was quite stunning in her day. You find Adrian Grenier of Entourage fame attractive at all? http://img2.timeinc.net/people/i/2008/stylewatch/gallery/onset/080908/adrian_grenier300.jpg In her day, I think Charlotte Rampling was a more upper crust, better nourished Kate Moss. Re Adrian Grenier...funnilyy enough, I was watching the Devil wear Prada the other day, where he plays the boyfriend. However, Mentalist Simon Baker plays the Other Man, so... AG is certainly a beautiful man, but a bit too young and steely eyed for my tastes. I like blue eyes to have a touch more violet about them. Eric Bana, Will Smith and Simon Baker all project a warmth that I don't see in Adrian Grenier's pictures. So with them, I feel the mild emotional pull....like the requisite response to dewy eyed characters in a Disney film, but with a sprinkling of attraction added. I like AG in this pic, though http://reportonvegas.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/adrian-grenier.jpg There's more vulnerability and realness about his eyes there.
johan Posted January 22, 2012 Posted January 22, 2012 You shouldn't assume it was her. There are site guidelines people agree to follow when they sign up, which you break regularly. Anyone who sees posts, like the one you just made, can report them. And the moderators can come look at what you write without anyone telling them to. Now that you've made a name for yourself, you should expect them to be keeping an eye on you.
gaius Posted January 23, 2012 Posted January 23, 2012 In her day, I think Charlotte Rampling was a more upper crust, better nourished Kate Moss. Re Adrian Grenier...funnilyy enough, I was watching the Devil wear Prada the other day, where he plays the boyfriend. However, Mentalist Simon Baker plays the Other Man, so... AG is certainly a beautiful man, but a bit too young and steely eyed for my tastes. I like blue eyes to have a touch more violet about them. Eric Bana, Will Smith and Simon Baker all project a warmth that I don't see in Adrian Grenier's pictures. So with them, I feel the mild emotional pull....like the requisite response to dewy eyed characters in a Disney film, but with a sprinkling of attraction added. I like AG in this pic, though http://reportonvegas.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/adrian-grenier.jpg There's more vulnerability and realness about his eyes there. Ahhh now I get it, the warmth you like. I'd take Charlotte Rampling over Kate Moss any day of the week too, Kate Moss scares me. Gayus: Taramerde trolls me, and you're going to say I'm bothering her? I could care less what these barren middle aged women think except to feel sorry for them. I was referring to the loser who felt the need to PM her and try to influence who she talks to and doesn't talk to, not the loser who decided to be hateful to one of the few genuinely nice people around here for no reason.
Author counterman Posted January 23, 2012 Author Posted January 23, 2012 I saw this girl today while waiting at the train station. I was standing their looking down the platform and when I turned my heart she walked towards and then right past me. Most gorgeous girl I've seen in a while... but it was peak hour and I froze. How should I go about in a situation like that if I want to talk to her? Or should I even bother?
Taramere Posted January 23, 2012 Posted January 23, 2012 You shouldn't assume it was her. There are site guidelines people agree to follow when they sign up, which you break regularly. Anyone who sees posts, like the one you just made, can report them. And the moderators can come look at what you write without anyone telling them to. Now that you've made a name for yourself, you should expect them to be keeping an eye on you. I can guess what this is about. If it had been me who hit the alert button on this deleted post I'm guessing Tony would have infracted me for reporting posts made as part of an exchange I participated in. Ahhh now I get it, the warmth you like. I'd take Charlotte Rampling over Kate Moss any day of the week too, Kate Moss scares me. KM is incredibly photogenic...but yeah, she scares me a bit too. I remember years ago, seeing Charlotte Rampling in 1960s film called Georgy Girl where she played the lead's stunning but very narcissistic flatmate. She really captured that sixties look.
Taramere Posted January 23, 2012 Posted January 23, 2012 I was referring to the loser who felt the need to PM her and try to influence who she talks to and doesn't talk to, not the loser who decided to be hateful to one of the few genuinely nice people around here for no reason. In defence of the person who PMd me, I don't think they were trying to dictate or influence who I should speak to so much as just trying to encourage me not to get embroiled in something they regarded as a pointless waste of energy. I'm not that nice, in that I'm quite opinionated on here and don't always back down from conflict. On the other hand, some things need to be brought above the radar. Sorry to counterman, though, for the OT stuff.
Author counterman Posted January 23, 2012 Author Posted January 23, 2012 In defence of the person who PMd me, I don't think they were trying to dictate or influence who I should speak to so much as just trying to encourage me not to get embroiled in something they regarded as a pointless waste of energy. I'm not that nice, in that I'm quite opinionated on here and don't always back down from conflict. On the other hand, some things need to be brought above the radar. Sorry to counterman, though, for the OT stuff. It's all good! (I dont know what OT is though:lmao:) We are all entitled to our own opinions and if someone disagrees strongly, it's best to agree to disagree. Anything otherwise usually leads an argument that's just wasted energy and leaves no one better off. In fact, it's more likely to make amposter more bitter or angry. Personally, when I sense someone is trying to bait me, I just ignore and move on. It's a post from a guy/girl who is a stranger in the Internet.
Taramere Posted January 23, 2012 Posted January 23, 2012 It's all good! (I dont know what OT is though:lmao:) We are all entitled to our own opinions and if someone disagrees strongly, it's best to agree to disagree. Anything otherwise usually leads an argument that's just wasted energy and leaves no one better off. In fact, it's more likely to make amposter more bitter or angry. Personally, when I sense someone is trying to bait me, I just ignore and move on. It's a post from a guy/girl who is a stranger in the Internet. OT is off topic...and as for the rest, you're right. Dealing with conflict is part of what I do professionally, but a site like this should be a break from all of that. Re your other post about the girl on the platform. As soon as I saw that I thought of an advert we've got on tv at the moment.
Author counterman Posted January 24, 2012 Author Posted January 24, 2012 OT is off topic...and as for the rest, you're right. Dealing with conflict is part of what I do professionally, but a site like this should be a break from all of that. Re your other post about the girl on the platform. As soon as I saw that I thought of an advert we've got on tv at the moment. So, part of what you do would be trying to resolve conflict or at least managing it? That's pretty cool. I would love to know how to deal more effectively with conflicts especially when I'm one of the subjects. It's just not worth getting all stressed or worked up and I think some people carry what someone says to them on this forum to bed and let it ruin their day. I use to and had to take breaks from LS lol:p Thanks for the vid! That was way too cute. I guess I wouldn't really do anything unless she smiles at me first.
joystickd Posted January 24, 2012 Posted January 24, 2012 I would have to name three. 1. Julie Chen 2. Julianne Moore ( I have a thing for brunettes and redheads) 3. Roselyn Sanchez I think that covers the ideal looks from three races I prefer to date
Taramere Posted January 24, 2012 Posted January 24, 2012 So, part of what you do would be trying to resolve conflict or at least managing it? That's pretty cool. I would love to know how to deal more effectively with conflicts especially when I'm one of the subjects. It's always easier to stay calm and reasonable when you're resolving other people's disputes. It's just not worth getting all stressed or worked up and I think some people carry what someone says to them on this forum to bed and let it ruin their day. I use to and had to take breaks from LS lol:p There are various ongoing conflicts here that hugely influence discussion, depending on which section you look at. In the dating section, the male v female conflict is a regular one. In the OW section, other women versus betrayed wives, in the political discussion Republicans versus Democrats. It can be difficult to post in any of those sections without somebody identifying you as an enemy. Thanks for the vid! That was way too cute. I guess I wouldn't really do anything unless she smiles at me first. You could try grumbling about the transport service. That, rather than strumming a guitar and making up songs about eachother, is how people over here usually strike up conversation.
Author counterman Posted January 24, 2012 Author Posted January 24, 2012 I would have to name three. 1. Julie Chen 2. Julianne Moore ( I have a thing for brunettes and redheads) 3. Roselyn Sanchez I think that covers the ideal looks from three races I prefer to date I have a thing for brunettes and redheads too... In fact, I would throw in Emma Stone. Roselyn Sanchez It's always easier to stay calm and reasonable when you're resolving other people's disputes. I agree completely. I've witnessed coercive ways of trying to resolve disputes and all it did was escalate it. There are various ongoing conflicts here that hugely influence discussion, depending on which section you look at. In the dating section, the male v female conflict is a regular one. In the OW section, other women versus betrayed wives, in the political discussion Republicans versus Democrats. It can be difficult to post in any of those sections without somebody identifying you as an enemy. I tend not to get caught up in those conflicts. I would express my opinion and perhaps expand on it but when a discussion gets off topic and it turns into personal attacks, I usually stay out of it. I have had friends who tried to force their opinion on me and others. It got to the point where everytime we meet each other, he would try to one-up everyone, even when we weren't discussing anything. It got to the point where a lot of my friends and I were uncomfortable with sharing any of our thoughts because we would be pounced upon; he would yell, scream over our words, bring up the subject again, and continue on. Even threaten to get physical a few times... I just cut off any contact, but I wonder if there would have been a better way of dealing with that. You could try grumbling about the transport service. That, rather than strumming a guitar and making up songs about eachother, is how people over here usually strike up conversation. I might just do that, and if she responds, awesome. I've never struck up a conversation with an office girl speeding through the city before or waiting no a platform. But there's a first for everything and its a bit of fun.
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