oren ish Posted January 19, 2012 Posted January 19, 2012 OK... situation... Some chick posts kisses on your facebook on Gfs birthday, a Prom partner to be exact... GF gets pissed and barrels you... heated argument arrises and a Fu and a Fu goes down... a big FU actually and part ways... Gf goes out that night and gets laid... All patched up a few days later but the truth doesn't come out till 6 months later... had a few drinks my self tonight and going back over the situation.... Cheating or not?
Philosoraptor Posted January 19, 2012 Posted January 19, 2012 Cheating... I'm not sure. Did you agree that things were ending? The entire situation speaks of horrible immaturity.
Author oren ish Posted January 19, 2012 Author Posted January 19, 2012 LOL yeah ... damn you man your always spot on and you have said that to me before... its become a road block for me i spose... I know it does Philosoraptor but alot of heated arguments are... sigh..... we are both at a stalemate...
standtall Posted January 19, 2012 Posted January 19, 2012 Technically no, but you have to ask yourself why you want to be with such a tramp?
Author oren ish Posted January 19, 2012 Author Posted January 19, 2012 Technically no, but you have to ask yourself why you want to be with such a tramp? I dont... but this is her argument and keeps bombing me with "Im so sorry's"... I have a case of the thinks tonight...
nofool4u Posted January 19, 2012 Posted January 19, 2012 OK... situation... Some chick posts kisses on your facebook on Gfs birthday, a Prom partner to be exact... GF gets pissed and barrels you... heated argument arrises and a Fu and a Fu goes down... a big FU actually and part ways... Gf goes out that night and gets laid... All patched up a few days later but the truth doesn't come out till 6 months later... had a few drinks my self tonight and going back over the situation.... Cheating or not? If you were truly broken up, then it wasn't really cheating. But if she screws a guy that same night, then it shows she was just looking for an excuse to spread her legs for another guy anyway, or she didn't care about you in the first place. But then again, maybe you should have told this other girl to not put kisses all over your FB. That is just asking for trouble. I'd be pissed at this other girl. She should know that it wouldn't sit well with your gf.
nofool4u Posted January 19, 2012 Posted January 19, 2012 I dont... but this is her argument and keeps bombing me with "Im so sorry's"... I have a case of the thinks tonight... Try this. See how sorry she is, or if she can handle taking her own medicine. First let me get this out of the way, I'm not suggesting you should actually do what you would ask her, just test her out. Tell her, "ok, if you are really sorry, then since you got to go out and get yours on with another guy, I get a night out to get it on with another girl." Now of course she won't like it, but if her reaction is one of anger, then say, "well then I guess you aren't that damn sorry". Then you can tell her you wouldn't do that, but just wanted her to get a taste of what its like to think about you being pleasured by another girl.
Author oren ish Posted January 20, 2012 Author Posted January 20, 2012 (edited) Try this. See how sorry she is, or if she can handle taking her own medicine. First let me get this out of the way, I'm not suggesting you should actually do what you would ask her, just test her out. Tell her, "ok, if you are really sorry, then since you got to go out and get yours on with another guy, I get a night out to get it on with another girl." Now of course she won't like it, but if her reaction is one of anger, then say, "well then I guess you aren't that damn sorry". Then you can tell her you wouldn't do that, but just wanted her to get a taste of what its like to think about you being pleasured by another girl. LOL i don't i will be trying that mate... that's a little bit immature and character degrading... tit for tat and setting a dangerous threshold... On the other chick posting the kisses ... I know but i couldnt really help it at the time as i was at work and they started a slanging match for quite a while which i dont really know what was said... I did tell her to back off but the damage was done and i argued intensely that it was nothing at the time... how wrong was I? lol Looking back a bit on it i think insecurity played a big part but the situation screams exactly what Philo said... I was just curios what the pros thought around here... Edited January 20, 2012 by oren ish
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