djjd9199 Posted January 19, 2012 Posted January 19, 2012 I have been with this girl for almost 4 years. She is a great human being. She works at a cancer treatment center and that takes a special person to do that kind of work. I love her. Now here is what has me so confused. She never tells me she loves me, when ever we go out it is me that has to pay the bill. she doent even offer to leave a tip. I pay for evrything. We recently moved in together and she doesnt help with any expenses. I would think that at least she would keep us in good with the groceries but no!! I used to tell her I loved her but grew tired of the silence after saying it. Is it me or is this normal? am I telling myself this isnt right or is it just my imagination. I love her but I am so confused about what to do. she is the best person I have ever known.
without Posted January 19, 2012 Posted January 19, 2012 the best way in my idea is to ask her,nicely,why you never tell me you love me?believe me,when something is bothering you for that long,you should tell her directly,communicate with her.
creighton0123 Posted January 19, 2012 Posted January 19, 2012 Talk to her, not us. Ask her what's going on. Ask her what she is feeling about the relationship. Ask her if she can contribute financially to relieve some of the financial stress you're having. Right now, you sound like you don't have a girlfriend as much as you have a financially dependent adult that you take care of. This is not fair to you.
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