strikers Posted June 1, 2004 Posted June 1, 2004 This is fairly complicated but thats what love is. almost a week ago i found out that my dad had heart problems. A week before that my uncle died. My girlfriend took it upon herself. She worries about me 24/7 because she cares for me. I remember driving home from the place we ate lunch at she was so worried about me she almost crashed. 2 days ago when igot back from vacation she asked me for a break. We would break up for about a month and then get back together. She says she loves me and wants to date me for a length time period even marry me but before she gets all serious she wants one last fling. Well shes going to this guys prom and i later found out she has a crush on him, she also wants to make sure that the night is fully romantic and she lives her fantasy. She told me that before she becomes all serious she wants one last fling. I asked her if i had anything to be jealous of and she said no because we would do it all eventually. While we are broken up we arent allowed to have sex, do anything below the belt, or have a bf or gf. I asked her 50 billion times if she thinks shes still gonna have those deeply rooted special feelings for me and shes like yes. She says she knows herself she even bet me 5 dollars (she never looses a bet). I know when people go on a break or even break up they arent sure of their feelings anymore, im pretty sure thats not the case here. I think she just wants to get this out of her system. After all shes barely 18 shes gonan graduate HS this week she doesnt need the stress i give her right now. She told me once summer gets goin well get back together. I love her very much and she knows that i think she loves me to. What do you think?
Author strikers Posted June 1, 2004 Author Posted June 1, 2004 yesterday we started i guess, today we didnt. She doesnt like me touching her as much altho she likes it when i buy her things and say I love her. She told me to go find someone else and have a fling too. She just wants me to be happy. Heres the better question do you think shell come back? -Confused
KatAnn Posted June 2, 2004 Posted June 2, 2004 Hi Striker, I would be confused too. I'm thinking you have to ask yourself if you are worth better treatment. You guys are young and it's hard to commit at this age. Maybe things will work out but ultimately you have to be true to your own feelings... Kat
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