amytct Posted June 1, 2004 Posted June 1, 2004 I know lots of you have been reading my posts about my now two-week old breakup. He wanted to meet with me to discuss things and I decided not to respond, just couldn't face the pain. Today he e-mails and wants to know how my weekend was. Truth be told, I volunteered to work most of it because I couldn't stand the thought of the long weekend all alone. I know this is normal, but I miss him so much and I don't know what his overtures to me mean...guilt or wanting me back. Just trying to stay strong and hang in there. The support I've received has been wonderful..thank you.
uriel Posted June 3, 2004 Posted June 3, 2004 Sounds like your guy is missing you and wondering if he let go of a good thing. That doesn't mean he'll commit to taking you back. It means he's having doubts. He's asking you about your weekend because he has lingering jealousy. Okay, so given that, what do YOU want? Do you want to play this fence sitting game, too? Or would you rather tell him to make up his mind -- either leave you entirely alone or get back together? I wouldn't keep giving him this in-between option if I were you. It's a killer emotionally -- keeps you wondering, wanting, waiting. No good at all. -- uriel
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