bestrong Posted January 17, 2012 Posted January 17, 2012 Haven't spoken her in a while and I came across one of her pic today on FB ( she blocked me and I saw it cause our mutual friend got tagged). She looks pretty much the same, with a new hairstyle and is happily with her bf. It's strange that I don't have any hard feelings when I see her photos and I have begun to wonder what is it that make me still think about her this often. I still love her, but why don't I feel jealous at all? Have anyone of you experienced it before? Where you love someone and gave them a piece of your heart but you don't feel hurt when seeing their pics? I know I am not ready to talk to her though
Exit Posted January 17, 2012 Posted January 17, 2012 This is a normal stage of healing in my experience, and a sign that you are almost there. I've been an extremely slow healer in past instances, and I know when I can see pictures of them and not really feel much of anything that I am going to be okay. I'm basically right at this stage now like you are. I still love my ex, very much so, but I think if I ended up hearing about what she's up to today, or seeing pictures of her, I'd be alright. Maybe at this point the way that we love these people changes a little bit. We love them enough to want them to be happy and no longer feel pain just because their definition of happiness doesn't include us.
Kamila Posted January 17, 2012 Posted January 17, 2012 The hard feelings are beginning to subside. And since you're not a selfish person, you won't feel easily jealousy. Personally, I saw a picture of my ex with his new girl, and I felt very hurt. But after some months, I accepted this. I'd rather ignore his pictures.
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