Is it best for Average people to Date Average people and give up their dreams?

January 18, 2012

Then perhaps some women should also lower their standards since only about 10% of men are 6 feet and over and maybe half of them are actually good looking also

Women DO 'lower their standards' by your logic. Aside from Kathy, nearly every single poster has said height isn't a big deal to them. My female friends don't have any height requirements-they're a little sad if they're taller than their boyfriends, especially in heels, but that's about it.

I have no idea where it is written down so that so many guys have this idea that short = bad. Some of the biggest players I know are short guys... 5'4" and 5'6" respectively. 5'8" is the average height for heavens' sake.

Height is not an issue for the majority of women. It MIGHT be a priority for the 10-20% of women who have their pick of the male population. Why? Because they have their pick of the male population. I seriously cannot understand why it is so difficult to wrap your brains around this.

January 18, 2012

Why waste energy and emotion over something you cannot change, like height? Do something about things you can change. If money and power trump height, run for office or invent something, become an entrepreneur, be more of a go-getter in career.

I can't change my age but I spend more time and money making sure I look as good as possible. It's called "marketing." We singles are in the "meat/meet market," and don't you forget it.

January 18, 2012

Mate selection, which is controlled by females in most species, has never been a kindprocess. The female, no matter what species, is basically interested in good genes and awell-provisioned nest. But within this female drive there is room for exceptions or truetrade-offs. Money and power can usually supplant height in female preferences the way rockbeats scissors. After all, Al Pacino is only 5-foot-7, and Henry Kissinger is 5-foot-9.

"Taller isn't always better," says Bobbi Low of the University of Michigan andauthor of Why Sex Matters. "The bottom line is, men want healthy young womenand women want healthy men with great resource potential."

Good post. I think thats what men here are complaining about. That the mate selection process in humans as many species is controlled by females and it is no kindprocess. You have to face rejection at every turn. I realize that once a male is accepted by a woman at that point the power turns over to the man.

It's just so disgusting to me because I see being obese as a choice. And conversely there is absolutely nothing I can do to change my height. If I could work out to get taller, I'd be 6'5.

It's incredibly frustrating that I am being limited by a factor I had no control over. I didn't choose to be short, nor did I get to choose whether or not I'm attracted to overweight women.

The depression is caused by my dating troubles.

Having a goal that I'm not able to accomplish because of factors that are out of my control.

That leads to depression and a feeling of hopelessness.

Well short is choice too... they don't have to choose to date you! Why is it you feel so entitled to have a gf when you don't even ask women out. I mean you've asked out like 1 girl this year yet you've probably made hundreds of posts already...

Stop looking for things on the outside like a gf to make you happy. Your joy must come from within. To enjoy sex to enjoy a girl you need to be happy with yourself. Otherwise you'll just be thinking about bad things the entire time and nervouse etc.

Height can be overcome. We all see it every day. And you don't have to become famous to do it. Just being confident and happy will do it. You can work on your confidence yet you act like its all so unfair.

If a person's unrealistic standards are holding them back from getting what they want--which is a relationship--then I'm going to challenge them on breaking out of the rigid standards that are holding them back. You guys are all saying that his attitude and low confidence are what is holding him back, well maybe he has a poor attitude and lack of confidence because of his failure in attracting a woman. It's pretty hard to have confidence and a good attitude when you continually get shot down when approaching women. He's free to not settle, but so far that hasn't gotten him what he wants.

Enough telling him to settle thats not his problem. If he were to settle it has to happen naturaly. As in he diludes himself into think the fat old woman is beautiful and that only he can see it.

He can't be like wow she's fat and ugly so she'll probably say yes. He'd be happier with out a gf if thats how he felt. Naturally he should have started to find grotesque women drop dead sexy by now... but nature hasn't worked for him. Because there is something sexy about a person you can actualy touch as opposed to the porn he spends his day looking at.

Basicly Somedudes greatest problem is he doesn't hit on women. He's complained so much already this year about girls yet he says he's only asked out one so far this year. Also he followed it up by "I'm going to ask her out again because I'm not sure she knew she was being asked out..." So he sorta asked a girl out because he's not sure if she even understood his invitation.

If he just asked women out he'd get a gf. One he considered hot. Also I don't think his goals are unrealistic I just think he whines a lot and does nothing about his situation.

Wanting a women whos not fat is having rigid standards?

lol hes not asking for a model

hahaha his standards arn't that high at all. He just upsets women when he says stuff like that. He should just leave it at I only want to date women I'm attracted too and I'm attracted to most women.

You know, I sympathize with you. I know it seems unfair. There is nothing you can do about your height. I know a lot of men in your situation who get shot down and rejected because of height. I can certainly understand that you would be depressed about this, and feel hopeless, since you can't change this factor. And I understand your preference for slim women. No one is faulting you for a having a preference--at least I'm not. I'm just suggesting that you consider adding a greater portion of women to your dating pool to increase your odds of finding a relationship. That's all. I think if you were to consider women that are currently outside of your ideal standards, and consider other things beyond physical attributes as attractive in women, you could find happiness in such a relationship.

He already has more women then you can imagine in his dating pool but he doesn't ask any of them out.

He needs to shut up about his height. Seriously he thinks a woman is going to feel so sorry for him she'll agree to be his wife and give him children. It's lunacy. He has moments of lucidity and comes off as a cool guy... but then he goes back to doing nothing and feeling sorry for himself.

January 18, 2012

There is some merit to the idea that if you live in America you better learn to like fat women that can't cook and have horrible personalities.

And if you're a woman in America, you better learn to like short fat men who are under/unemployed. Anything beyond that and they tell you your standards are way too unrealistic and threaten to go steal East Asia's women.

But eh, what's new? American women have heard over and over again for decades that it's always their fault when they're single, and that every man-regardless of his own shortcomings- is entitled to a hot, young, slim, baggage-free girlfriend.

January 18, 2012

There is SO much you can control:

Get a good job.
Get a bigger build.
Get really good at something that women admire (not video games).

Your biggest problem is you are WAY behind in the game. Your lack of ambition (30+, no girlfriend, still in school) is far more of a turn off than your height. Women expect a man your age to be more established. It isn't about wanting your money; it is about being attracted to drive and ability.

Excuse me?

You make it sound as if I've been 30 my whole life.

Also I like to point out that I look much younger than I am. The last three people who asked me age, I told them to guess. Want to know what the most common guess was? 23. I know better than to tell people I don't know really well my age.

Girls simply do not know how old I am. So me being 30 and having a "lack of ambition" is not applicable.

Next, the whole lack of ambition thing is nonsense. I have a job, I have my own place. I have a car. Yes I'm in college. Is it really that uncommon for somebody to work for a few years then decide to go back to school to get a degree?

The one thing I'm curious about is, what is something I can realistically get good at that women admire?

FTR, my H is only 1" taller than you. But he's 20-30# bigger, both muscle and fat. Yum.

Yeah I can gain 20lbs of fat. Though I really don't see how having a bigger stomach is going to help.

Gaining 20lbs of muscle will take a lot of work and several years to accomplish. And yes I have been working on it for a while now.

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As for the whole chubby thing.

I've linked to her picture before.

What is this girl considered? 5'4, 153.

Chubby? Overweight?

January 18, 2012

I hate this country so ****ing much LOL. Imagine if women could only date someone they liked if they spent all their time at the gym, were really good at something (good luck finding a woman with hobbies) , were a specific height, etc etc.

Don't listen to women, guys. Being 5'6 or 5'7 is not the same as being obese in any rational part of the world, only in places where women have all the advantages like America. Go to any sane country that isn't poisoned by feminism and girls wouldn't care what your height is, atleast not nearly as extreme as it is here. If we lived in an awesome place like Bulgaria all the girls who pretend they're models in the USA and have their egos stroked by desperate losers, would be prostituting themselves for 40 dollars instead .

There is some merit to the idea that if you live in America you better learn to like fat women that can't cook and have horrible personalities.

What stopping you from moving then?

Also I havn't known that many people from Bulgaria... but all the guys were majore dicks... and short actually. And the girls are usualy smokin hot and yes low standards for men.

Excuse me?

You make it sound as if I've been 30 my whole life.

Also I like to point out that I look much younger than I am. The last three people who asked me age, I told them to guess. Want to know what the most common guess was? 23. I know better than to tell people I don't know really well my age.

Girls simply do not know how old I am. So me being 30 and having a "lack of ambition" is not applicable.

Next, the whole lack of ambition thing is nonsense. I have a job, I have my own place. I have a car. Yes I'm in college. Is it really that uncommon for somebody to work for a few years then decide to go back to school to get a degree?

The one thing I'm curious about is, what is something I can realistically get good at that women admire?

Yeah I can gain 20lbs of fat. Though I really don't see how having a bigger stomach is going to help.

Gaining 20lbs of muscle will take a lot of work and several years to accomplish. And yes I have been working on it for a while now.
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As for the whole chubby thing.

I've linked to her picture before.

What is this girl considered? 5'4, 153.

Chubby? Overweight?

Boohoo hoo cry me a river. You don't do anything but cry about it. Stop crying about the way things are and do something about it. You've lost hope, time to get it back.

I've offered to help you out of the goodness of my heart and the promise that it could be amusing... you never took me up. And I've been offering it going on years now since its now going on years that I've know you to be whining about this same stuff like a broken record.

The sad truth is that even with all their pickyness if you just go and get a woman you'll get one. You'll get one as hot or as pretty or as sexy and fun as you need her to be. It isn't that hard. It's easy. Seriously getting a woman these days is about as hard as running a quarter mile... any one can do it pretty much. Tell me you havn't noticed that loser guy with no money, no looks, and no tallen yet he just goes out there and does... I have and thats what woke me up to the fact that above all else women need a man of action. That means enough with your feelings and insecurites and time to get out their and do. Go get a girl and kiss her, start rounding the bases and have good time with women instead of stressing about rejection non stop. C'mon dork time to be a man. Women like men... You are a baby who will never be breast fed. Time to grow up and stop being proud of the fact women think you're college aged boy. You'd be better off even with the young college girls if they looked at you and saw a man!

January 18, 2012

I hate this country so ****ing much LOL. Imagine if women could only date someone they liked if they spent all their time at the gym, were really good at something (good luck finding a woman with hobbies) , were a specific height, etc etc.

Don't listen to women, guys. Being 5'6 or 5'7 is not the same as being obese in any rational part of the world, only in places where women have all the advantages like America. Go to any sane country that isn't poisoned by feminism and girls wouldn't care what your height is, atleast not nearly as extreme as it is here. If we lived in an awesome place like Bulgaria all the girls who pretend they're models in the USA and have their egos stroked by desperate losers, would be prostituting themselves for 40 dollars instead .

There is some merit to the idea that if you live in America you better learn to like fat women that can't cook and have horrible personalities.

It is hilarious how a a Man to be a desirable has to be hot tall have status be sucessful in shape a women has to be not fat to be a prize:rolleyes:

January 18, 2012

There is some merit to the idea that if you live in America you better learn to like fat women that can't cook and have horrible personalities.

And they all want to be called Princess and treated like a Queen. I watch Bridezillas too.

January 18, 2012

It is hilarious how a a Man to be a desirable has to be hot tall have status be sucessful in shape a women has to be not fat to be a prize:rolleyes:

This is so not true. I'm far from fat and can't a man to commit to me to save my life.

January 18, 2012

Well personally, I DO work out and am in pretty good shape (although not as huge as the shaved gorillas most women flick their bean to at night), and while I am under employed I'm still a college student. Most girls still think they're too good.

Someone your age on the other hand, I can see why you'd need someone with a decent job, fine. I don't know a single person whose telling you to date someone who is permanently unemployed.

I think your complain is the balancing act that occurs when men and women hit 30. It's not that men get an advantage, but women have to try harder and lower their standards because that big pool of nerds has graduated MIT and now they've got 6 figure jobs and getting laid like crazy. Before that, admit it, even you wouldn't **** em, suddenly they're getting chicks and the girls who thought they'd always be around are now red in the face shouting expletives to their cats \m/ .

Yeah, money helps. No duh it does. But I think the biggest boost would come from confidence. Money + confidence = sexiness. And I totally WOULD f*** them, but that's the real tragedy of it all..... Those nerds wouldn't f*** me, because they have a sense of entitlement brought on by years of rejection that only a woman who has achieved the social rank of Hot can soothe.

Confidence doesn't just get you in good with the hot ladies-it also opens your eyes to women you might not have previously seen as attractive because your ego was tangled up in your perception. An unsuccessful guy needs to attract a hot woman out of validation and to ease his bitter resentment towards the opposite sex. A confident guy, one who doesn't base his self worth off of how many and what type of women he can attract, doesn't NEED a hot woman. So not only is his confidence more appealing to those who are traditionally-hotter than he could "get" before, but his dating pool opens wider because his standards aren't so stringent.

No one is telling me to date someone who is unemployed, because I haven't made a thread specifically asking in months why I can't attract guys (I just assume it's my looks.) BUT I see tons of guys in these sorts of threads say that women's standards are too high, and that's why they're alone. So when we look at my standards:

-Must be employed enough to support himself

-Doesn't like over an hour away

-Bathes regularly

-Is nice to me and likes me

-Doesn't have kids

there's only so much more 'lowering of the bar' I can do. Since I care nothing about height, barely care about weight, but DO care about money, then logically I am left with lowering my expectations on job/income.

I think it's international law that American women are the worst types on the planet. There has to be a reason why this demographic is singled out, don't you think?

Oh that's easy. Because American women have economic power.

In more complicated terms, American women are finally able to support themselves. They can get their own jobs and have a livable income without needing a husband. Marriage is no longer a requirement to just survive. Because American women don't have to get married to have things like food or shelter (social acceptable is debatable), they can finally be choosy about who they marry.

Men have had this option for hundreds of years.... being able to take the prettiest bride with the fattest dowry, and if you were a poor or homely girl, well, there was always the nunnery. Now American (and most Western) women also have that privilege, and are exercising it by deciding that they'd rather stay single than marry a man who is undesirable.

Women in poorer countries simply don't have that option. They marry, or they don't survive. They're still in a social organization that's wrestling with issues discussed in "Pride and Prejudice" or "Fiddler on the Roof." (Inheritance through the male line meant no brothers and no dowry, which meant getting kicked out and living on the street, being unable to eat.)

In other words, American women can afford to be picky now, and women in, say, the Philippians cannot.

The sad truth is that even with all their pickyness if you just go and get a woman you'll get one. You'll get one as hot or as pretty or as sexy and fun as you need her to be. It isn't that hard. It's easy. Seriously getting a woman these days is about as hard as running a quarter mile... any one can do it pretty much. Tell me you havn't noticed that loser guy with no money, no looks, and no tallen yet he just goes out there and does... I have and thats what woke me up to the fact that above all else women need a man of action. That means enough with your feelings and insecurites and time to get out their and do. Go get a girl and kiss her, start rounding the bases and have good time with women instead of stressing about rejection non stop. C'mon dork time to be a man. Women like men... You are a baby who will never be breast fed. Time to grow up and stop being proud of the fact women think you're college aged boy. You'd be better off even with the young college girls if they looked at you and saw a man!

You are a wise, wise man.

January 18, 2012

The one thing I'm curious about is, what is something I can realistically get good at that women admire?

What are your interests?

Yeah I can gain 20lbs of fat. Though I really don't see how having a bigger stomach is going to help.

Gaining 20lbs of muscle will take a lot of work and several years to accomplish. And yes I have been working on it for a while now.

If you only gain in your stomach, that is unfortunate.

You'd think you have more empathy for women who have the same problem

As for the whole chubby thing.

I've linked to her picture before.

What is this girl considered? 5'4, 153.

Chubby? Overweight?

I wonder if she's caring, loving, funny, or good company?

Would she be a more valuable person if she weighed the same but distributed it differently?

It is hilarious how a a Man to be a desirable has to be hot tall have status be sucessful in shape a women has to be not fat to be a prize:rolleyes:

No, just status will do it. Or just success. Or just tall. Or just an awesome build. Or just charming.

Just like women, you only need one.

January 18, 2012

I think the most hopeless and defeated guys on this forum have never left the country. I travelled pretty extensively in my teens with my grandpas exporting business, and got to see a lot of different nations in Europe and the southern cone of South America, many of them on the poorer side but not poor enough to be unlivable (think "second world" countries).

If you go to certain places like that, it's about the complete reverse of what relationships are like in the United States of fat stupid ****s. Men are much more sought after since there is usually a shortage due to male slanted emigration. The monetary standards are also lower since there aren't as many very high paying jobs lying around, so a guy like me who isn't materialistic and doesn't want to live his life seeking riches, won't have to compete for women in this realm (women usually put a lot of emphasis on materialism). The women are attractive as a rule not exception, in contrast to America, somehow the disease of obesity is not as common in nations that don't have a Mcdonalds on every block or where a TGI fridays food portion for 1 is in reality for 3, must be magic.

Oh yeah, and you don't have to be 6'5 with a BMW (even though car might not impress girls in the USA, since they probably drive them themselves) to have a girlfriend in these places. You can be 5'8 with a crappy FIAT and be the town stud Women aren't put on pedestals, they're expected to do their part in the dating game as well as in society as a whole. And there's no rich desperate losers out like in NYC throwing money at women just for being female, so girls in other countries actually value when a man shows them romantic attention.

If you're short, bald, ugly, etc , learn another language and move to another part of the world, girls over there actually have mirrors and know they are flawed as well.

So get yourself a Russian bride or an Asian bride or move to Brazil.

Honestly, if it's that easy (move to another country, get some!) then why the heck hang around here with all us ugly American fat women? Surely in the exotic lands beyond, there are endless blow jobs and beaches! So move. Ta-da.

January 18, 2012

I think the most hopeless and defeated guys on this forum have never left the country. I travelled pretty extensively in my teens with my grandpas exporting business, and got to see a lot of different nations in Europe and the southern cone of South America, many of them on the poorer side but not poor enough to be unlivable (think "second world" countries).

If you go to certain places like that, it's about the complete reverse of what relationships are like in the United States of fat stupid ****s. Men are much more sought after since there is usually a shortage due to male slanted emigration. The monetary standards are also lower since there aren't as many very high paying jobs lying around, so a guy like me who isn't materialistic and doesn't want to live his life seeking riches, won't have to compete for women in this realm (women usually put a lot of emphasis on materialism). The women are attractive as a rule not exception, in contrast to America, somehow the disease of obesity is not as common in nations that don't have a Mcdonalds on every block or where a TGI fridays food portion for 1 is in reality for 3, must be magic.

Oh yeah, and you don't have to be 6'5 with a BMW (even though car might not impress girls in the USA, since they probably drive them themselves) to have a girlfriend in these places. You can be 5'8 with a crappy FIAT and be the town stud Women aren't put on pedestals, they're expected to do their part in the dating game as well as in society as a whole. And there's no rich desperate losers out like in NYC throwing money at women just for being female, so girls in other countries actually value when a man shows them romantic attention.

If you're short, bald, ugly, etc , learn another language and move to another part of the world, girls over there actually have mirrors and know they are flawed as well.

You put women on the pedestal every time you act like they're so dificult to get. I've traveled to a great many places around the world myself and it's amazing that you do see a higher quantity of beautiful women then you do walking the streets here. That seems like a fact. They also seem a lot more friendly and aproachable... BUT the even if you have to look a little harder there is no doubt many beautiful women in the US who come from all over the world. And yes its like the second they start living here something in them changes... but they are still very easy to get.

Getting a woman isn't like performing sucessful brain surgery. Any one can do it and it isn't that fricken hard.

It's not hard!

January 18, 2012

So get yourself a Russian bride or an Asian bride or move to Brazil.

Honestly, if it's that easy (move to another country, get some!) then why the heck hang around here with all us ugly American fat women? Surely in the exotic lands beyond, there are endless blow jobs and beaches! So move. Ta-da.

exactly. delta is ready when you are.

The one thing I'm curious about is, what is something I can realistically get good at that women admire?

maybe some male sports like martial arts or something, not that gay salsa stuff. that's my opinion anyway. some martial arts class would maybe bring out some masculine energy in you? and make you more confident in how you conduct yourself, walk, talk etc.

or join a band. chicks dig that stuff.

January 18, 2012

No, just status will do it. Or just success. Or just tall. Or just an awesome build. Or just charming.

Just like women, you only need one.

When you think about it, men have a lot more avenues to being highly desirable!

Women seemingly have only one: have the right body.

January 18, 2012

Honestly, if it's that easy (move to another country, get some!) then why the heck hang around here with all us ugly American fat women?

There are literally millions of South and Central Americans in the US so I am surprised he isn't meeting any of them. They'd love to marry and American and become legal. Better yet, he could move back south with them and start a new life.

January 18, 2012

When you think about it, men have a lot more avenues to being highly desirable!

Women seemingly have only one: have the right body.

this is true, so there really is no reason for men to complain.

if they feel entitled to have shallow requirements regarding a woman's body, woman are just as entitled to have their own laundry list in what they want in a man.

January 18, 2012

If your standards were really that basic, you wouldn't be single, unless you live in the Belgian Congo or something. Enough to support yourself is defined very differently by men and women. I make enough to support myself, but I'm also pretty simple, women think "enough to support yourself" = enough to go to Dorsia's every thursday and take vacations to hot parts of the world to sit out the winter.

Do I really have to make another Rant thread about how guys on this forum are convinced women who have difficulty getting dates are lying? Several female posters have come out stating adamantly over and over that they don't want tall, rich, chiseled models, and you continue to accuse me/them of lying. You weren't even satisfied with the picture I showed you of my overweight, band-geek, Star-Trek-enthusiast, I-make-double-his-income, 5-7" ex-boyfriend.

Maybe it is not actually that women in other countries are so much more awesome/beautiful/appreciative (aka needy) of men, but that you don't carry such heavy judgments against them. You see a Western woman, an American woman, and immediately assume simultaneously that 1) she's going to assume she's too good for you 2) that YOU'RE too good for HER (because as she is fat, ugly, probably a feminist, stuck-up, materialistic, etc.)

January 18, 2012

Do I really have to make another Rant thread about how guys on this forum are convinced women who have difficulty getting dates are lying? Several female posters have come out stating adamantly over and over that they don't want tall, rich, chiseled models, and you continue to accuse me/them of lying. You weren't even satisfied with the picture I showed you of my overweight, band-geek, Star-Trek-enthusiast, I-make-double-his-income, 5-7" ex-boyfriend.

Maybe it is not actually that women in other countries are so much more awesome/beautiful/appreciative (aka needy) of men, but that you don't carry such heavy judgments against them. You see a Western woman, an American woman, and immediately assume simultaneously that 1) she's going to assume she's too good for you 2) that YOU'RE too good for HER (because as she is fat, ugly, probably a feminist, stuck-up, materialistic, etc.)

Hey now, what's so wrong with Star Trek??!!

Haters gon' hate

January 18, 2012

this is true, so there really is no reason for men to complain.

if they feel entitled to have shallow requirements regarding a woman's body, woman are just as entitled to have their own laundry list in what they want in a man.

True, and high on that laundry list of what women want is height--tall or at least average height. Which is why those men who are not in the top 20% with whatever means they can be (job, money, social status, looks, fame, athletic ability, etc.) are not going to have much chance for success with women who are in the top 20% because of their appearance.

January 18, 2012

If you want the "right body", I can write you up an exercise and diet routine that I guarantee will make you look great in 6 months tops (maybe before that).

Could you do me a favor and write me a guide on how to be famous, rich, or tall in exchange for that?

All right, Wolf *crackles knuckles* here's what I've been doing so far for the last month:

-Eliminated all grains, any processed foods, and non-natural sugar. This covers: breads, rice, pasta, potatoes, peanuts, most beans, etc. I've cut out most dairy, and substituted in organic for pretty much everything

-Made 95% of my food from scratch.

-Eat 1200-1400 calories a day, with emphasis on protein and "good fat." I eat less than 90g of natural carbs (which usually comes from fruit) and enough protein to maintain 80-90 pounds of lean muscle mass (the calculation is about 1gish for each pound.)

-Do high intensity martial arts 2-3 hours a week (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rBligBmVnSw, some of the fighters are my direct instructors)

-Do belly dancing for 2 hours every week

-Go to the gym 3 times a week. Once there, I go 20-30 minutes of interval running carido, and 3-4 free weight full body exercises, rotating between dead lifts, bench press, squats, over head press, pull-ups, chin-ups and push-ups.

And I haven't lose a single pound, nor has it changed my body in any way.

So please Wolf, without your expert guidance on how I should look... I'm just lost.

I don't know why you are always whining Verzhn. Atleast one of the photographs you showed me of you and the guys you were with, the guy was man-pretty and in shape. The other one it was hard to tell but it wasn't the elephant man either.

I think you've done alright.

I've changed my theory. You've just awful at judging male attractiveness. Neither of those guys were in shape, or 'man-pretty.' And both of them dumped me for much hotter women.

Edited January 18, 2012 by verhrzn

January 19, 2012

Hmm. I prefer to believe that continuing to tell the pussies to stop crying like little girls and man up will eventually have its effect upon their sense of self-worth, but perhaps you're right.

But you're looking at this through the lens of a well-adjusted male, whose not taking it personally. verhrzn, on the other hand, is an anxiety-ridden female who takes it personally.

Her tendency to try impose rules viz what other people can do is a defence mechanism that won't result in these guys self-reflecting or her making changes herself that will result in more romance for her. I suspect it is precisely because it won't change squat that she sticks to her rote angry responses, just as the chest hair counters stick to their I want a pony with a pink mane that sh*ts rainbows nonsense.

January 19, 2012

I was reviewing some resumes earlier this afternoon and I chuckled at the people who are completely unqualified and undesirable candidates, yet demand a high salary and benefits.

I totally thought of this thread while deleting them from my inbox.

January 19, 2012

I think it's international law that American women are the worst types on the planet. There has to be a reason why this demographic is singled out, don't you think?

"International law" is pushing it a bit. I think it's "international law" that it's natural to get tired of your own country once in a while and want to try something new. It's natural to be curious about women from other places in the world, and to think they're superior, whether they're actually better or not.

Just as I'm sure if you went to another country, while you could have better luck with the women there, I'm certain you'd find your share of men who couldn't wait to move out of that country because -- just like you -- they're getting tired of the girls there.

All women from different countries have their "stereotypical" negativities that are harped on, American women just seem to be the most picked on at times because out of all countries, it's the one with a spotlight on it nearly 24/7 and whose culture (media-wise) is constantly under a microscope...

January 19, 2012

If you want the "right body", I can write you up an exercise and diet routine that I guarantee will make you look great in 6 months tops (maybe before that).

Could you do me a favor and write me a guide on how to be famous, rich, or tall in exchange for that?

No one said rich, or famous (god no).

Men with good, blue collar jobs are desirable. Police officers, for example, get lots of women.

But you skipped over hot body, or charming. You could have either of those in 6 months.

Like FitChick said, you need to market yourself. You need A selling point to attract a desirable woman.

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