solong123 Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 Theres this guy at work who i always had a little crush on nothing serious, hes just really out going and funny so its hard not to like someone that makes you laugh constantly. Everyone at work tells me that they think he likes me. He jokes with me all the time and were always laughing and smiling. I mean i talk to everyone i work with but i feel like its different with him. I really was oblivious to how much he talked to me because i was constantly thinking about my ex but now that my head is clear i notice just how good we connect. He had mentioned hanging out a few weeks ago but i never ended up responding i honestly just had my mimd elsewhere. I feel like a giddy little girl its weird and im not sure how to approach the situation. Weve been messaging and stuff but no i flat out like you or anything. Any suggestions?
Scottdmw Posted January 16, 2012 Posted January 16, 2012 If he mentioned hanging out and you didn't respond, he could quite well take that as a “I’m not interested at all” and move on to something else. I know personally I usually only ask once. If you want to pursue things you might need to indicate to him that you want to get together and do something. Scott
cerridwen Posted January 17, 2012 Posted January 17, 2012 Theres this guy at work who i always had a little crush on nothing serious, hes just really out going and funny so its hard not to like someone that makes you laugh constantly. Everyone at work tells me that they think he likes me. He jokes with me all the time and were always laughing and smiling. I mean i talk to everyone i work with but i feel like its different with him. I really was oblivious to how much he talked to me because i was constantly thinking about my ex but now that my head is clear i notice just how good we connect. He had mentioned hanging out a few weeks ago but i never ended up responding i honestly just had my mimd elsewhere. I feel like a giddy little girl its weird and im not sure how to approach the situation. Weve been messaging and stuff but no i flat out like you or anything. Any suggestions? What about saying "Sorry I never responded to your (text?) about hanging out. I was really distracted and my mind's was all over the place. I'd like to get together if you're still interested."
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