93TheHitStick Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 I recently started dating this girl. I guess her friends don't like me for whatever reason. Its her two homosexual guy friends that don't like me by the way. Yesterday i went to her party. We went outside to talk. And her friends car door was open. So we got in. A long with like 6 other cheerleaders that followed us outside. We weren't doing anything sexual except for kissing. Then at the end of the night her friend gets mad that we were in his car. We did have sex in his car once. But we basically asked him first. We made it obvious what we were doing. And we honestly did nothing but kiss yesterday so i don't even get why he is mad. Me and her got in an argument because i'm tired of her friends. And shes always telling me i need to just ignore them. Then when i get home she calls me crying since her friends told her that she "wasn't a lady" because she was sitting with me in the car. And they are all mad at her because she lost her virginity to me (not in the car lol). I told her she should stop letting her friends effect her. Because the same dude who was saying that stuff to her has sex with old dudes he meets off of his iphone. And some of them pay him. She just got really quiet and said that she was going to try. But i don't know. Should i just break up with her? I mean i can't date her and her friends. I do like her a lot but i don't have the patience for this kind of stuff. And i feel like she is never gonna stop listening to her "best friends" So she is probably gonna break up with me soon anyway. I have been nice to her friends since i met them. Yet they continue to disrespect me on a regular basis. And honestly i'm not that nice of a person. And the only reason i haven't beat both of them up is out of respect for her.
ThaWholigan Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 Difficult situation. You've already laid your cards on the table, and she's already told you she will do what she can. I've had friends who have been in your situation and I have had to advise them in this, and have witnessed the bad behavior first hand. Sometimes it has been gay dudes too, they seem to be the bitchiest at times, but I doubt it's the norm. I'd say to keep your cool, it's the best thing you can do. If she still allows herself to be affected by their cattiness then you may have to leave the scenario. Don't be hasty though, my advice is to stick around and cool it, usually things will fall into place.
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