Buttercup84 Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 I went out today to watch my friend in a play ( ha , poet ! ) and hung out with him , his fiance who is my close friend , and their friend . All couples . I had a great time , but then came the whole going home alone thing . Everyone else went home with their partner or went home to them , while I went home alone. I miss the excitment of seeing your loved one at home , getting into your pj's and snuggling on the sofa together . Though in the end my ex did his best to not touch me .. There are days where I LOVE being single , not having to tell anyone where I am going , flirting with strangers , making my own plans ... But then I miss the affection and doing something with someone special . And sex of course too I have a cat , a body pillow and chocolate which helps , but I miss the real thing . Sigh . Anyone else feel the same ?
ken_25 Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 A LOT of people feel the same exact way buttercup. I miss sharing my life with my partner, I really do, but right now I am alone and must roll with that. Eventually I'll meet someone special and have that again, and so will you. It's all part of the journey.
fificremefarben Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 I went out today to watch my friend in a play ( ha , poet ! ) and hung out with him , his fiance who is my close friend , and their friend . All couples . I had a great time , but then came the whole going home alone thing . Everyone else went home with their partner or went home to them , while I went home alone. I miss the excitment of seeing your loved one at home , getting into your pj's and snuggling on the sofa together . Though in the end my ex did his best to not touch me .. There are days where I LOVE being single , not having to tell anyone where I am going , flirting with strangers , making my own plans ... But then I miss the affection and doing something with someone special . And sex of course too I have a cat , a body pillow and chocolate which helps , but I miss the real thing . Sigh . Anyone else feel the same ? I miss the affection, big time. Also just having someone in your life that you know cares about you in that way. It's very lonely when you lose that. I don't let myself miss it with him, specifically, though. I know it wouldn't feel the same after everything.
Cmac Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 I get how you're feeling. Sometimes I think I just miss the closeness of having someone more than I actually specifically miss my ex.
sunflower11 Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 I feel that way too...I actually really enjoy being single now and doing things for myself...but then of course I miss those moments you are supposed to share with someone else and I miss the gnite texts and stuff like that
CaliBabe Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 I miss the affection alot too. I have someone for the sex part as my sex drive has always been high but he is not fulfilling my affection part. It's hard.
lilyblue Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 Yep, a lot. I had a dream last night that I was somewhere with my ex. He was still back together with his ex-wife but I convinced him to let me sleep with him (as in, go to sleep with him, not sex). I can still feel his arms wrapped around me today and my head on his chest, and it's so nice. It's kind of bittersweet, it does make me feel good in a way, because I feel like it actually happened, but of course, it did not...
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