Anela Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 Lol. I play kickball as well. And charity softball. I haven't played flip cup or beer pong in a good six months though. Haha. I really am some kind of parody stereotype, aren't I? Shi..... I wouldn't say that. I like her, and she's outgoing where I was too shy. She was keeping herself busy and meeting people, making friends, having fun. I've never played those games with alcohol, but she was lucky and met a good guy (or he seems so, right now).
Disenchantedly Yours Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 Wolf18 People call me a "misogynist" because I have a lot of criticism of women, but people always seem to overlook my criticisms of the mass man. How the breads and circuses came to define manhood in the modern world will always be an object of my curiosity. The Romans used the term in a tone of lamentation to the decline of true heroism in their culture. There is nothing "over testosteroned" about sitting in your lazyboy in front of the boobtube drinking awful american beer. Yes, you do have a lot of criticisms of women. No, they are not always fair or accurate. But I never thought you were a "misogynist". But I disagree that football isn't about testosterone. Whether your watching it or playing it. Sure, they aren't the ones on the field playing but the very male compeition does speak to something inside them. I've been going to games since I was 12. My dad had season tickets that I now have today. I've seem more examples of over testosteroned men in the stadium, in the parking lot and in their homes to know that you don't have to be on the field to be full of testosterone when watching football. Now, ask me if I think that makes a "man" a "man" and you will find that I don't think overly ape like displays of testosterone do. I also think that while football is a great game to watch, that too many men live overly vicariously threw it. Yeah nothing looks cooler than a guy with a gray beard and backwards baseball hat http://static.igossip.com/photos/dailyfill_Fred_Durst_43071_fred_durst_093009_300.jpg Maybe you're attracted to the poetry of the Fred Dursts of the world? "STAND UP ON YO TIPPPPY TOES!!!!" Guess Peter Pan forgot to stock up on Just For Men. Oh give me a break. I see nothing wrong with a guy of any age wearing a backwards baseball cap in he appriopiate setting. If he is wearing them to work, yeah that's lame. But if he is wearing them on the weekend to do run errands or to play a game of softball..what's the big deal? An article of clothing doesn't warrent someone's maturity level. Fred Dursts would still be a douche without the hat. I know the type . Does your prince charming also scream out random borat/charlie sheen lines too? Err no. Not a fan of "borat" or Charlie Sheen. Geez, why are you being so nasty.
dasein Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 Yeah... this guy seems immature, but so do you. If you can't handle a guy rescheduling a date then you have a serious problem. Is your self esteem that fragile? Your pride wounded that easily? I think this is too harsh UF. It's one thing to cancel plans for a legitimate reason, but for a 29 y.o. to "practice" kickball, touch football, etc.? C'mon that's ridiculous, those aren't "practice" type things and most anyone who got plans cancelled due to that would feel completely blown off. One thing that hasn't been touched on is that this is a sixth date. The 5-7 dates are very fragile because people have begun the process of questioning commitment and relationship thinking, "could I date this person exclusively?" A rank blowoff such as OP got during this time says 90% of the time, "I am not really interested in an exclusive dating relationship with you and am too chickenshyte to tell you to your face."
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