Anela Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 So now the frat boy, drunk off his ass, is texting me telling me what a horrible person he is for standing me up. It's hard as hell but I'm not replying. Thanks for the wake up call, LSers! Good for you!
Dust Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 ... Because he has to "train" for these beer olympics thing he is doing in two weeks. He got to get his tolerance up, ya know? I acted all cool and nonchalant about it. But I am raging right now. We were supposed to run a 5k together next sat and I was really looking forward to that. Now I thinking I should probably bail on that? Grrr. I hate boys! That would have been a great excuse to get you drunk! He's not very smart using such a transparent excuse. You hate boys? Maybe that means sex with you would be angry! Beer Olympics are something he and his college fraternity alumni do every year. It's 6 teams of 4 guys. They get real drunk and play sports basically. Touch football, basketball, kickball. And drinking games. Beer pong, flip cup that sort of thing. They are really serious about it. They have a traveling trophy and everything. But the dude is 29. A little too old to be so into it, imo. And he's giving up tang for it? Lame!! Nah 29's not to old for beer olympics! Too old for really lame excuses to cancel dates though. You'd expect a little more finess once a guy gets to that age. At least pull out an "I have a bad stomach bug and don't want you to see me like this or catch it!' Maybe you should stop having romantic feelings towards the mentally retarded. But I guess the sky is the limit as long as you look a certain way. You look a certain way. The sky is the limit if you want it to be. Hey! You clearly feel the same way I do Buster! Lately I've been more friend zoned then I have friend zoned any guy Wolf. I'm just giving up for now. With all my friends and cousins settling down lately, maybe I'm just gonna be crazy (more hopefully "cool") Aunt DY with her cats that my friends come to visit with their families. And I've been attracted to and fallen for a wide variety of men Wolf. I was never one for a guy with a hard body for the sake of a hard body. I'm also not one for muscle/meat heads or guys that think Monday Night Football is the gift of life. I do enjoy football myself but I've been to enough football games of over testosteroned men to not find it exciting anymore. I do sometimes have a thing for men in backwards baseball caps..for some reason I think it's cute. But then again...I still like legwarmers and think they are cute too. If it makes you feel better, I have no clue who Broseph Broman is. I think you and wolf would make a lovely couple! Actually, I'm more into the prettied up type party boy. The kind in the stripped button downs and $200 jeans. Lol. They would never wear a baseball hat because that would ruin that little front faux hawk thing they do with the gel, ya know? You're fun, Wolf. Stripped button down shirt check! Jeans I bring to the dry cleaners to be washed check! Faux hawk heck no... but enough gel in my hair to cover the planet 6 times over... check but only on rare ocasion. Wolf is fun, he hides away from women is his problem. If you're interested you too would totaly make a great couple. You're way too much of a whiny bitch/cry baby to be the masculine ideal. Yeah he pretty much is in his current state. He needs to flip that switch. That's only because it's illegal to drag you to my cave by the hair. It was always illegal to do that stuff. unless of course you were the biggest guy around which you arn't. So then the big guy who considered that woman his property would skull fck you with his his bone sword. You've mentioned that to me before :laugh: Damn she liked it. Wolf I say you grab a girl by the hair and start dragging her back to your place damned be the consequences!
Wolf18 Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 Hey Dust, I don't need your help having cyber hook ups with internet women, I'm the AMOG you ought to FEAR ME. Now leave the E-HB's to me, before I out-Alpha you
Anela Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 I'm acquainted with a thirty year old woman who played kickball, and met her boyfriend playing both that, and flip cup. She's happy.
Anela Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 Hey Dust, I don't need your help having cyber hook ups with internet women, I'm the AMOG you ought to FEAR ME. Now leave the E-HB's to me, before I out-Alpha you Your picture is hilarious.
Wolf18 Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 Everyone, including you Dust, PM me if you would like to know my SECRET to success with every woman you've ever met even if you're 5'2, bald and have a unibrow. You can Alpha down any AMOG's with my secrets. Only 19.95 for the first half a page long PDF, sorry I don't take Master Card.
Dust Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 Hey Dust, I don't need your help having cyber hook ups with internet women, I'm the AMOG you ought to FEAR ME. Now leave the E-HB's to me, before I out-Alpha you haha I'd just enjoy the attention. I wasn't really trying to help you I was just having a good time. Only you can help yourself. You could do it quite easily if you just changed your mind set. Don't believe in things like Alpha male. I know you're just kidding with me now. But it also appears you believe in such things. All that defines an Alpha wolf is the wolf that mates. The wolf that mates is the father of all the other wolves in the pack. Any wolf that leaves the pack and finds its own mate will start its own pack where it will be the Alpha. So it has nothing to do with being the sexiest, strongest, or smartest.
Wolf18 Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 Your picture is hilarious. Jealous, much? Haters gonna hate. *Offers high 5 then moves hand away at the last second* See students, this here is a free lesson on how to seduce women and keep her wanting more. If you want even better results, buy my patented Alpha Male pheremone cologne as a supplement. It's a combination of sweat that accumulates under the brims of my backwards fitted cap and AMOG tears. Two drops of this will make women wild.
Wolf18 Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 haha I'd just enjoy the attention. I wasn't really trying to help you I was just having a good time. Only you can help yourself. You could do it quite easily if you just changed your mind set. Don't believe in things like Alpha male. I know you're just kidding with me now. But it also appears you believe in such things. All that defines an Alpha wolf is the wolf that mates. The wolf that mates is the father of all the other wolves in the pack. Any wolf that leaves the pack and finds its own mate will start its own pack where it will be the Alpha. So it has nothing to do with being the sexiest, strongest, or smartest. I do believe in Alpha males to a degree, but my definition of an alpha male is quite different from a womans. I've had fist fights with so called alpha males in my life, beat them down in a couple instances (Although I have lost as well, don't get me wrong I'm not bragging or pretending im the toughest guy around) but instead of their girlfriends running to mate with me they end up coddling their not as tough as he thinks boyfwwwend dazed on the ground. It's also been cold out and I've given my jacket to girls I've tried to get with regardless of my own physical feeling (what I would consider alpha male behavior), only for them to run off with some IT nerd 10 years older that has a lot of money and wears a snuggie around the house (their definition of an alpha male).
Dust Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 I do believe in Alpha males to a degree, but my definition of an alpha male is quite different from a womans. I've had fist fights with so called alpha males in my life, beat them down in a couple instances (Although I have lost as well, don't get me wrong I'm not bragging or pretending im the toughest guy around) but instead of their girlfriends running to mate with me they end up coddling their not as tough as he thinks boyfwwwend dazed on the ground. It's also been cold out and I've given my jacket to girls I've tried to get with regardless of my own physical feeling (what I would consider alpha male behavior), only for them to run off with some IT nerd 10 years older that has a lot of money and wears a snuggie around the house (their definition of an alpha male). Let me explain some great many things to you. But first let me tell you that I've been in fights with a-hole where I beat the guy up only to watch a hot chick I like coddle him. I've done something nice for a girl only to have her show her attention to some nerdy loser. It happens. A suposed alpha in the wilderness wouldn't leave another man around to be coddled. You punched some guy in the face and he fell down, so what. In the wild the other guy would have been a pile of blood and guts or badly injured and running so far away never to be seen again. Then you'd have to go around killing all his kids and stuff... As for doing something nice for a girl. I mean big deal you gave a girl your jacket. Does that now mean she owes you anything? C'mon man don't be like this. It's really easy to get girls you just don't try. It's one thing for Ditzchic to get upset about this but you're supposed to be a man! Stop worrying about when things go wrong and get out there and try. Because in case you've forgotten since its been a while you are going to have the best time of your life doing the things the right women will let you do with her!
Wolf18 Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 Let me explain some great many things to you. But first let me tell you that I've been in fights with a-hole where I beat the guy up only to watch a hot chick I like coddle him. I've done something nice for a girl only to have her show her attention to some nerdy loser. It happens. A suposed alpha in the wilderness wouldn't leave another man around to be coddled. You punched some guy in the face and he fell down, so what. In the wild the other guy would have been a pile of blood and guts or badly injured and running so far away never to be seen again. Then you'd have to go around killing all his kids and stuff... As for doing something nice for a girl. I mean big deal you gave a girl your jacket. Does that now mean she owes you anything? C'mon man don't be like this. It's really easy to get girls you just don't try. It's one thing for Ditzchic to get upset about this but you're supposed to be a man! Stop worrying about when things go wrong and get out there and try. Because in case you've forgotten since its been a while you are going to have the best time of your life doing the things the right women will let you do with her! No, I definitely don't expect anything. I use my alpha male behavior on men too. When I see a man who is weak in some way, my instinct is not to smash him or bully him to feel good about myself (unless the guy is dumb/cowardly/mama's boy yet also arrogant about it, then it's open season) it's to use my strengths to help the dude up as I would want someone stronger than me in some regard to do if I was in that situation. It isn't about getting something in return, it's about being baffled that a woman would rather be with/consider an alpha male a rich IT nerd who stays in bed all day acting like he's got leukemia when he gets a little cold or screams in horror when they get a paper cut, yet my behavior is completely irrelevant because I'm not rich or 6'3 or amazing looking.
Dust Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 No, I definitely don't expect anything. I use my alpha male behavior on men too. When I see a man who is weak in some way, my instinct is not to smash him or bully him to feel good about myself (unless the guy is dumb/cowardly/mama's boy yet also arrogant about it, then it's open season) it's to use my strengths to help the dude up as I would want someone stronger than me in some regard to do if I was in that situation. It isn't about getting something in return, it's about being baffled that a woman would rather be with/consider an alpha male a rich IT nerd who stays in bed all day acting like he's got leukemia when he gets a little cold or screams in horror when they get a paper cut, yet my behavior is completely irrelevant because I'm not rich or 6'3 or amazing looking. But you're not as tough as you could be. You're not even going out there and trying man. It's Saturday night and the night is still young especialy since you live in NYC area. You need to get out there. Imagine how many lonely girls like DITZCHIC there are sitting home wishing some guy with follow through was doing some thing with them. Correct me if I'm wrong but you havn't asked any girls out in person all week and you have no plans to go out and howl at women tonight. It's like you expect that memory of the one time you tried to mean anything.
Wolf18 Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 (edited) But you're not as tough as you could be. You're not even going out there and trying man. It's Saturday night and the night is still young especialy since you live in NYC area. You need to get out there. Imagine how many lonely girls like DITZCHIC there are sitting home wishing some guy with follow through was doing some thing with them. Correct me if I'm wrong but you havn't asked any girls out in person all week and you have no plans to go out and howl at women tonight. It's like you expect that memory of the one time you tried to mean anything. I usually go out on tuesday, I eat something with my friends then get hammered at their place. That is the extent of my social life as my friends are either married, have girlfriends who don't let them go out to party, or work all weekend. I've gone out on my own a few times and always woke up minus 70-80 bucks (and that's just my own bar tab LOL) , with a disorderly conduct ticket, the stench of a 48 year old BBW trying to make out with me when I was passed out in a corner of a bar, and just meeting lousy people I don't want to talk to ever again all around. I don't have fun at all and wake up with a crushing depression and an ever lower opinion of people. Lonely girls like Ditzchic, aren't lonely, they are with their girlfriends or male orbiters tonight going to meet the next fratboy that will do the very same thing to her. Lonely 20 something women only exist in the movies. Edited January 15, 2012 by Wolf18
Dust Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 I usually go out on tuesday, I eat something with my friends then get hammered at their place. That is the extent of my social life as my friends are either married, have girlfriends who don't let them go out to party, or work all weekend. I've gone out on my own a few times and always woke up minus 70-80 bucks (and that's just my own bar tab LOL) , with a disorderly conduct ticket, the stench of a 48 year old BBW trying to make out with me when I was passed out in a corner of a bar, and just meeting lousy people I don't want to talk to ever again all around. I don't have fun at all and wake up with a crushing depression and an ever lower opinion of people. Lonely girls like Ditzchic, aren't lonely, they are with their girlfriends or male orbiters tonight going to meet the next fratboy that will do the very same thing to her. Lonely 20 something women only exist in the movies. I'm a better hunter then you because I know full well from much experience that pretty, young, sexy lonely girls do exist and they exist in abundance. You yourself admit you rarely leave the house and when you do it's just to get drunk and pass out. The bar scene isn't a great place to meet women. But you need to be hitting on women some where and some how. You just don't even try man. If you just started asking women out you'd have a girlfriend sooner then later. Go the bookstore, go to a comedy show, just do things and flirt/ask out girls you like. Then keep doing it instead of crupmping at the first sign of rejection. Don't be a woman. Ditzchic at this point would actualy make a better man then you. I mean look how seamingly well she's take this really rude rejection. Heck she even resisted getting into it with the guy when he drunk dial/txted her
Feelsgoodman Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 Beer Olympics are something he and his college fraternity alumni do every year. It's 6 teams of 4 guys. They get real drunk and play sports basically. Touch football, basketball, kickball. And drinking games. Beer pong, flip cup that sort of thing. They are really serious about it. They have a traveling trophy and everything. LOL at the Beer Olympics excuse...I'll try to remember to use that one sometime But really, what do you expect? You are dating a 29 year old guy who's really serious about being in the Beer Olympics...sounds like a great catch to me :laugh: Then again, going by your username and the contents of your posts, maybe the two of you are not a bad match after all.
Anela Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 Lonely girls like Ditzchic, aren't lonely, they are with their girlfriends or male orbiters tonight going to meet the next fratboy that will do the very same thing to her. Lonely 20 something women only exist in the movies. That isn't always true. I spent a good part of my twenties feeling perfectly happy being single, but I had times when I wished for more - to be out in the world more, at least, with others. I was at home, like you. I don't like parties, and I've already established that I had/have issues with men, but I was still open to something good happening. It just takes a while for me to trust someone, and I barely met anyone at all. All sorts of things didn't sink in for me, that I wish I had really listened to at the time, rather than letting my expectations of misery, and my anxiety attacks, get the better of me. And this comes from someone who had a man call her a "classic beauty" last month. I'm not, but it was nice to hear - he meant it. I just wish I'd believed it when I was younger, instead of feeling ugly: "My legs are too long, my cheekbones are too big, my waist is too short, I'm not pretty, you're just being nice [that last one said to myself], etc." Anyone trying to drag me away by my hair, would have been summarily ditched, but a good guy would have been given the time of day. Although it's usually those guys who don't appreciate what they have in front of them, even when it's a pretty girl, because they're wanting the prettier one.
Anela Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 I'm a better hunter then you because I know full well from much experience that pretty, young, sexy lonely girls do exist and they exist in abundance. You yourself admit you rarely leave the house and when you do it's just to get drunk and pass out. The bar scene isn't a great place to meet women. But you need to be hitting on women some where and some how. You just don't even try man. If you just started asking women out you'd have a girlfriend sooner then later. Go the bookstore, go to a comedy show, just do things and flirt/ask out girls you like. Then keep doing it instead of crupmping at the first sign of rejection. Don't be a woman. Hey, no need for that. Women put up with a lot of rejection, too, and deal with it gracefully. Re: sexy, lonely girls. Yeah, I got that a lot, too. Comments about sexiness. It put me off, and I didn't feel safe. I needed time to get to know someone. Ditzchic at this point would actualy make a better man then you. I mean look how seamingly well she's take this really rude rejection. Heck she even resisted getting into it with the guy when he drunk dial/txted her
dasein Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 Have you guys seen those wack ass Friskies catfood commercials where the cat goes off into some cartoon acid fantasyland while a sappy vapid track plays? I will never buy any Friskies catfood and will kick the next cat I see all because of Friskies' demented ad agency.
Dust Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 Hey, no need for that. Women put up with a lot of rejection, too, and deal with it gracefully. Re: sexy, lonely girls. Yeah, I got that a lot, too. Comments about sexiness. It put me off, and I didn't feel safe. I needed time to get to know someone. Right you are honey! See what I just did there Wolf? I don't rarely leave the house. I work , go to school and like to party like anyone else. This immediate second I don't have anyone to hang out with on the weekend, and after doing it time many weeks in a row, I'm sick of going out on my own. It's just boring, I get myself into trouble, and although i have a thick skin over my 'feelings' it feels pretty depressing. I'd really like to know where all these "young sexy lonely women" are, because I don't see them anywhere. I go to bookstores quite often, the sections I browse (philosophy and history) might as well be turned into mini gay bars since I never see any women browsing anything except sex books, vampire lit, or guides on "how to keep him interested". I'm seriously not making this stuff up because I want to "hate women" like some people imply, it's my honest to god experience. I actually even see more women browsing the sports sections than I do stuff i'm interested in. I went to a comedy show with my friends once, the comedian sucked and there weren't any lonely girls around. In fact even girls who claim they're lonely on internet dating sites, are not lonely enough to have a conversation with me over a mutual interest. Or at best , they reply with a 3-4 word answer or laugh at a smartass thing I say but don't say anything in return. LOL I wouldn't take that from a woman at all. But regardless, this is her "type", and many other womens. I'm not that "type", and never will be, regardless of any good or bad qualities I organically have. The type of male ditzchic goes out with is the same exact type of male I see hogging up all the girls when I go out. Look man getting a girl is an alone activity. Having a bunch a single friends isn't any help truthfuly. Why not go over and hit on those girls reading the other books if they're cute. Be ok with girls being into lame stuff too. They arn't suposed to be your clone with a vagina. They are their own person.
Author ditzchic Posted January 15, 2012 Author Posted January 15, 2012 I'm acquainted with a thirty year old woman who played kickball, and met her boyfriend playing both that, and flip cup. She's happy. Lol. I play kickball as well. And charity softball. I haven't played flip cup or beer pong in a good six months though. Haha. I really am some kind of parody stereotype, aren't I? Shi..... Oh and yes, I did go out with my ladies tonight since I got stood up. But to whoever said something about me having orbiters, that's absolutely not true. I don't keep orbiters around and I really don't have male friends. Just a few male acquaintances that I talk to very rarely. I don't stay friends with exes either. I don't take consolation prizes and I don't give them. And I'm terrified of leading people on so I find it better to just stay away from the opposite sex unless I'm romantically interested in them. I'm also hoping that that strategy will make things less complicated if/when I do find a Mr. Right.
dasein Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 Why not go over and hit on those girls reading the other books if they're cute. Because this is what is in their heads http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Q4JLsNtDsM
Untouchable_Fire Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 Beer Olympics are something he and his college fraternity alumni do every year. It's 6 teams of 4 guys. They get real drunk and play sports basically. Touch football, basketball, kickball. And drinking games. Beer pong, flip cup that sort of thing. They are really serious about it. They have a traveling trophy and everything. But the dude is 29. A little too old to be so into it, imo. And he's giving up tang for it? Lame!! Whatever, your just pissed because he cancelled the date. Definitely not. I'm not planning on seeing him again. At least in a dating context. I may still do the 5k next weekend because I really want to do it for me. But it's not a date and there will be no canoodiling afterwards. So pissed in fact that your not going to date him anymore. At least until he learns how important your Ego is to you. Yeah... this guy seems immature, but so do you. If you can't handle a guy rescheduling a date then you have a serious problem. Is your self esteem that fragile? Your pride wounded that easily? Just get over yourself. You are clearly not that cool.
Anela Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 No, I get that you get out enough. I was just saying that I wasn't around anyone long enough to get to know them. One of the first places I started spending more time at was the bookstore. Although I shot out of there one night last April, after a bad day, when I thought that someone was going to hit on me. I started going in my twenties. Preferable to bars - I don't go to bars at all.
Dust Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 LOL. It would be good to go out on the town, you'd be a good wingman! Imagine if instead of being an AMOG to my ALPHA, the Alpha's banded together to **** and pass as many women as possible! Alpha's would rule the world!!! I don't know man, it's much more fun atleast when I do it with my friends. I feel like it's more theatrical when others are watching, and my game improves even if I do wind up getting rejected. When I'm alone i'm in a bad state of mind to begin with and I'm not good looking enough for women to overlook this . You're right, this is my biggest issue with women. I suppose i'm picky in my own way as I want a woman who shares my interests. Another issue is that with women who are into stupid stuff I find it hard to hold a conversation with them, I try to talk to them in a way that makes sense to me and they try to talk to me in a way that makes sense to them, causing a lot of misunderstanding. A lot of times I end up freaking out dumb women since they don't understand my sense of humor or ideas. You seem like a fun guy if we lived in the same area we surely would slam a few down and cause trouble. I think people should definetly band togather to end a lot of the BS that goes on in this world but getting women would be like stealing candy from a baby if you just applied what you already know. I think hanging out with friends and hitting on chicks is fun too. I remember me and a friend of mine once walked the beach hardcore hitting on every bikini clad babe we passed. Going to the clubs and screaming crazy crap at girls to get a reaction also a good time. But the seriouse getting a gf time is a one on one thing. Like Ditzchics thread title she had a one on one date cancled. You need that one on one time. You need it when you're asking them out if you can get it. Also you need it on the date. Dating at its core is an each man for himself activty. Though I agree its a fun fricken time to have a wing man. Just not needed. Don't be so picky! Learn to enjoy the sweet sound of their voice even if they are talking about something lame. If you like a girl its really cute to listen to her go on about something otherwise lame. They always look so much better naked! Keep that in mind. What I'm trying to tell you is the girl of your dreams might be some sexy girl who happens to read crappy books and watch crappy movies. Just remember Ditzchic, it wasn't frats or beerolympics that turned her off, it was being ditched. Just imagine how sexy it would be to have some pretty girl who was really into you and wouldn't ditch you for the world. Who gives a fck if she's into teddy bear workshop and pink scooters... as long as you're into the way she looks, and she in turn is into you. Don't lose sight of the bigger picture. You want older times again stop looking for gay things like a girl who likes the same stuff you do. Look for a woman who lookes good and has a cute way about her. Enjoy introducing her to one of your movies and the cute faces she'll make as she doesn't get it. Remember the right girl will like you back. And you'll enjoy that. Don't lose sight!
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