GG3 Posted January 14, 2012 Posted January 14, 2012 I have a first date tomorrow for the first time in a long time. I got out of a unhealthy long term relationship (5 years) that fizzled into nothing. I haven't really tried to date since or meet people. I met this guy at a clinic, only talked to him for 5 minutes maybe. I happened to find him online on a dating site and he asked me out. I've talked to him on the phone some...I'm not even sure if we are going to have chemistry or not yet. I'm so nervous and really have the jitters! Worried about silly things such as will we have enough in common...will we hit it off...what to wear. I never used to put this much thought into meeting someone! Chemistry and compatibility is hard to find...I don't know why I'm even worried so much! Maybe I'm just excited to meet someone new. Anyone else care to share their jitters stories?
Ninjainpajamas Posted January 14, 2012 Posted January 14, 2012 Yeah don't let all those things bother you, it's time to NOT worry about everything so much and just try and have a good time. Just don't jump into anything you hear! I haven't had the jitters for a while like I had as a teenager, although I can get pretty nervous but I know that If the chemistry and connection is right there won't be much effort necessary and nothing else really will matter.
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