lalalandman Posted January 14, 2012 Posted January 14, 2012 Her: I don't know what to do with you Me: I'm sorry you're confused Her: What did I do now Me: I'm still pretty hurt. Between you and me, I hurt pretty ****ing badly for a long time, and I'm better now, but I don't feel like I know you anymore. I understand what you said about wanting to try again, but that was months ago. I can't talk with you because of the stress. Her: Ok if that's what makes you happy I respect that because I respect you Me: you either have to want to work it out or you don't, because constantly pulling me back in isn't cool. That's what's causing me stress. You really need to decide. Her: Maybe we shouldn't work it out. We have soooo many issues u don't want to have pain neither do I. We both love each other but at the same time can't stand each other. Me: You came to me. The hot and cold needs to end. If you don't want to work it out then you need to let me go for good and allow me to meet someone who DOES Her: I do care about u. Just go. I'm sorry I contacted you again. I'll change my number. Me: Do what you want Her: I'm not going to waste the rest of my life arguing with u you haven't changed one bit. I've changed a lot. I'm not that dependent little girl anymore. I've grown up. I thought this time apart would make u more grown up too. We clearly will never be on the same page. I will always care about you but that's not enough. Me: I don't know what you're talking about. I just know that the push and pull needs to end. Somebody who loves another shouldn't act this way, unless that person is very CONFUSED. That's no "grown up", sorry to inform you. Her: I'm always wrong and ur always right. How could I forget that. Her: U were the one that said I don't want to talk to u bc I'm hurt I respect ur decision then u get mad at me gosh. Me: I'm saying that your confusion about what you want is causing the pain and stress. We BOTH did wrong. That's how we got here. I've grown up enough to know that. But none of that matter at all unless we're both willing to work on it. END
smokey bear Posted January 14, 2012 Posted January 14, 2012 For Gods sake, just tell her you bloody love her, to shut her mouth and get her ass over to your bit so you can kiss her. LALALAman stop giving her a hard time for going and enjoying herself. Get over yourself, not the breakup, yourself, your ego, your pride, your hurt. How do you recon? A new relationship This isnt a new relationship, it is full of the old one, let it go, start new, ask her on a date and treat it like one and someone new.
wilsonx Posted January 14, 2012 Posted January 14, 2012 For Gods sake, just tell her you bloody love her, to shut her mouth and get her ass over to your bit so you can kiss her. LALALAman stop giving her a hard time for going and enjoying herself. Get over yourself, not the breakup, yourself, your ego, your pride, your hurt. Agreed, shes ready, let everything go and start anew
EgoJoe Posted January 14, 2012 Posted January 14, 2012 You did the right thing, lala. Notice the pandering, the deflection and the games? I wouldn't have even argued with her but I think you needed this. You really told her off in the NICEST way possible. Keep going brother.
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