thatone Posted January 17, 2012 Posted January 17, 2012 (edited) So what should have I done? Entered her without her permission? Just proceeded? as emilia said, you should have left well before 1.5 years. probably more like 1.5 months. why waste that much time with someone who doesn't really want to be with you? Edited January 17, 2012 by thatone
FredRutherford Posted January 17, 2012 Posted January 17, 2012 (edited) as emilia said, you should have left well before 1.5 years. probably more like 1.5 months. why waste that much time with someone who doesn't really want to be with you? Well, it seemed like it might make for a potential lifelong relationship. She was considerably older than me. I met her in one of my first "cold calls...." and was glad I got-up enough nerve to ask her out. As she was an older Christian woman, who hadn't had a lot of sex, I was conscious of her stance on sex before marriage, so was very patient. If I pressed her for sex, or took advantage of her, it could come back to me later, and she could lecture me about how great I was on MY morals.... As I posted, didn't "expect" to have sex with her. Didn't want to press her, though I really wanted her sexually during those "everything...but" evenings.... (can't deny that). The next woman I dated in my late 20s, an agnostic I think (she wasn't very religious, at least, and was politically liberal), was also a virgin and wouldn't let me go all the way, so we did a lot of other things. Again, I didn't want to press her if she wasn't willing.... The next woman I dated, my future wife, I didn't press her but wasn't timid at all and just made my moves. That was 4 mos. into our dating... Edited January 17, 2012 by FredRutherford
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