quietGuy13 Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 I've been to schools, college, Jobs(various companies) and I never fit in anywhere. In all jobs i went for example, all the girls went following the loud/hiphop/cool/smooth/ good talking guys. And i mean EVERYWHERE! including a recent medical job i had. they just love to yapp and yapp nonstop and there's plenty of guys that do that, so the girls always follow those guys. So yea, i've proven that i don't fit in anywhere, so how to ever find a date?
ditzchic Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 I feel your pain. I've always felt different from most people too. I mean I have friends and no problems getting dates because I'm generally a social person but it's hard for me to really feel connected with people because, well, I'm just unique. The only advice I can really offer you is to keep putting yourself out there. Keep showing up to life. Of course you are unique but there are almost 7 billion people on this planet. Do you really think you are THAT unique that you're never going to meet anyone you really click with? It'll happen if you keep showing up. Just keep your head up.
ThaWholigan Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 If you don't learn to communicate, you will find it very difficult to find a date. It's also unlikely that a woman will make a move on you in this case.
jobaba Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 I've been to schools, college, Jobs(various companies) and I never fit in anywhere. In all jobs i went for example, all the girls went following the loud/hiphop/cool/smooth/ good talking guys. And i mean EVERYWHERE! including a recent medical job i had. they just love to yapp and yapp nonstop and there's plenty of guys that do that, so the girls always follow those guys. So yea, i've proven that i don't fit in anywhere, so how to ever find a date? Too vague and not enough details. You have to add more information if you want someone to help. Age, where you hang out, what kind of women you've hit on/asked out in the past.
turt Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 That's the way it is when you're quiet! It's not that you don't fit in, it's that people are less likely to socialize with you if you don't show up as sociable person. I'm trying to change as well but it's not too easy.
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