loveshots Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 i am just an 18 year old teenager. i have an 1 year and 2 months relationship with a 20 year old guy. i am aware that in a relationship arguing and fighting are inevitable part of it.. my boyfriend is such an overly sensitive one, hard to convince when he is mad, and it will take him days to cool down.. just a "simple" mistake, he will get angry at me like hell! i am an open-minded person and i do accept my mistakes, even if i know that my mistakes are just some sort of simple stupidity, still, i am doing every effort that i can just for us to be okay again and most of the time my efforts are not enough so i have to continue the effort of waiting for days for him to calm down, but i keep on texting him while waiting. i know how pesky i am, but that's the part of me that he appreciated the most because he feel secured with me when i do that. i do really love my boyfriend, a lot, and i do also know that he loves me too.. but when it comes on handling me when i am the one that is angry, he is so impatient. not even showing a bit of my effort when he is the one that is angry.. he will just do the sweet text messages for 5 times but when that 5 messages doesn't work for me.. he will already get angry and thinks that i am with somebody else that is why i can manage to reject his messages. and now when i get angry at him with just a simple sweet message from him, i am already okay.. the anger is gone in an instant! i really tried to change myself, for our relationship to work.. i don't want to disregard his effort because i am afraid that he will get angry at me, if i do that. i am being too easy? kind? stupid? i really don't know what was the right way to show that i am angry. because i am afraid that i might not notice that i am over reacting and it might worsen the situation. that should i do?? help!
Philosoraptor Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 Sounds like there are both insecurity issues and a lot of maturing to do.
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