sagweee Posted June 1, 2004 Posted June 1, 2004 I will probably go out with this man tonight or tomorrow again as he called and told me he really enjoyed himself the last time we went out. Actually I did too (dry hump included!) I think I'm pretty safe now because I have my period and don't imagine that he would want to become more sexual knowing this, especially since he doesn't know me that well. I'm just wondering what to expect this next time? I definately don't want to have sex with him yet....
HokeyReligions Posted June 1, 2004 Posted June 1, 2004 Whoa! You were 'dry humping' on the first date!!!! What happened to holding hands, a kiss good night and getting to know each other!!!!! How many dates have you been on that you don't know what to expect?
DerangedAngel Posted June 1, 2004 Posted June 1, 2004 Wet humping? No? Ok... more dry humping? I definately don't want to have sex with him yet.... Then don't. Don't do anything you aren't comfortable with. And if you don't think he'll respect you enough to listen to your wishes, then don't go out with him again. -Deranged
ANDYinPA Posted June 2, 2004 Posted June 2, 2004 Um, what ever happened to saying "No, I don't want to have sex with you!" Heres a tip, if you want a serious relationship with a guy, don't "hump" at all on the first date. By doing that, "dry" or "wet", you label yourself as EASY! Take a minute, get some self-control, and get some guts. He shouldn't be prevented from having sex with you because of a biological inconvienence, YOU should prevent that if you don't want to have sex. By the way, NEWS FLASH, of course he enjoyed himself rubbing his thing all over you the first night. DUH! And I really don't think this "man" is that concerned with how well he knows you because now he knows you'll probably put out sooner than most. GOOD LUCK!
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