Mr. Savage Posted January 11, 2012 Posted January 11, 2012 I'm single and I just love married guys I know and work with. They all like to tell me about this girl I should be banging, or that girl I should be banging. I need to get on that or why am I not getting with her. Like if they were not married they would for sure be banging all these girls. OK!!! Why did you get married in the first place then? Talk about hiding behind the veil of marriage. It cracks me up. Anyone else know married men like this who think they know it all about relationships and project it onto single guys. It gets annoying after awhile.
xpaperxcutx Posted January 11, 2012 Posted January 11, 2012 I'm single and I just love married guys I know and work with. They all like to tell me about this girl I should be banging, or that girl I should be banging. I need to get on that or why am I not getting with her. Like if they were not married they would for sure be banging all these girls. OK!!! Why did you get married in the first place then? Talk about hiding behind the veil of marriage. It cracks me up. Anyone else know married men like this who think they know it all about relationships and project it onto single guys. It gets annoying after awhile. And married women tell me all the time I shouldn't rush into marriage, enjoy my youth and have fun. I think this all means something doesn't it?
jobaba Posted January 11, 2012 Posted January 11, 2012 Haha. That's totally how it is. My best bud has been married for years and he's always pushing me to go further even if I get rejected. I emailed this one girl we knew awhile ago and her response was lukewarm and standoffish. "Keep emailing her." I was rejected by a friend that I liked earlier in the year. "What? Did she give you reasons. Keep at her." He did good with women back in his day, but his advice is horrid. For that matter, the advice of all my male friends is horrid. Of course, a few of them still go up and approach women in bars to 'keep their game sharp' and why not ... nothing to lose.
Untouchable_Fire Posted January 11, 2012 Posted January 11, 2012 Like if they were not married they would for sure be banging all these girls. OK!!! Why did you get married in the first place then? Because they found a woman they love? Nothing wrong with living vicariously.
carhill Posted January 11, 2012 Posted January 11, 2012 Funny, I always say 'Don't do it, don't do it' As the ladies here are so fond of saying 'I'm married, not dead'. I will say I know a lot more about marriage after having been married and divorced. Great education. None of my married male friends ever make noises like 'they know it all'. They know how karma can kick them in the butt at any time.
FitChick Posted January 11, 2012 Posted January 11, 2012 I will say I know a lot more about marriage after having been married and divorced. Great education. You only know what it's like to be married to your ex or someone just like her. Not everyone's marriage is the same, nor are their spouses.
carhill Posted January 11, 2012 Posted January 11, 2012 Well, yeah, duh. Your point? I share my lessons from *my* perspective, like everyone else does.
Woggle Posted January 11, 2012 Posted January 11, 2012 There is nothing like being married to give you an insight into the opposite sex. Also they probably don't want you to make the same mistake they did.
xxoo Posted January 11, 2012 Posted January 11, 2012 How awful, those married guys trying to help you get laid! Yeah, some of them are talking the talk, having never walked the walk. But don't assume that a married man couldn't get lots of women when he was single. Some could, some couldn't.
TheFinalWord Posted January 11, 2012 Posted January 11, 2012 They're trying to live vicariously through you.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 That sounds annoying Mr. Savage. I would hope that my future husband would not be sitting around encouraging other guys to "bang" girls or go to bars to hit on women to "keep his game sharp". Now if you asked for advice specifically, that's cool. But if they are just talking crap and a big game, yeah, that's totally annoying.
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