thatone Posted January 11, 2012 Posted January 11, 2012 (edited) so again not really looking for advice i just figured it was funny enough to post. here lately i get migraines. not a big deal, i figure it's inherited, my mother started getting them around my age. but the catch is i only get them during sex, not randomly. i tend to think it's a mix of not drinking enough water (more alcohol/sodas) and stress from other things. so the end result is the hard on that won't die. i posted the other day about not really being happy with my sort of casual/FWB type situation and not being able to orgasm, so in the interest of science (hah!) i didn't turn that woman away last time she called (last night) and i kinda put two and two together during the deed. it's not her, it's the headaches. the upside is longevity most guys would only dream of. downside....my fwb partner is telling me how she 'thought about me all day' and apparently i'm getting fairly popular at the nurse station at the local hospital (she's a nurse). whoops. last night i'm there standing at attention just waiting on the opportunity to go get some advil after her 3rd orgasm, and i didn't even go down on her, that was just a few minutes of foreplay and her on top (which will usually get me off right away) until she got tired. then she's telling me as she left this morning that 'no one else gets her'. dammit. Edited January 11, 2012 by thatone
Emilia Posted January 11, 2012 Posted January 11, 2012 I get lonely too so completely understand but you won't feel better until you find someone cool.
Author thatone Posted January 11, 2012 Author Posted January 11, 2012 yeah i know. she is cool, it's not that, we're just in different places, i'm in the process of moving, she has kids here. so the time is limited, both understand that. i even freely tell her about other women i'm interested in, and she's fine talking about it. but the damn headaches making me into her 'perfect man' isn't helping matters any.
Emilia Posted January 11, 2012 Posted January 11, 2012 I think it's rare for two people to be exactly on the same page when it comes to casual sex. It can't be nice for her that you are holding back and of course her talk is putting pressure on you. As I said in your previous thread, that's why I had the rule of either ONS or dating properly, nothing in between. It's kind of heartbreaking when you feel you are letting down someone by not reciprocating.
Dust Posted January 11, 2012 Posted January 11, 2012 I she a hot nurse? Because these days they all seem to be 300+ pounds. All I'm thinking is you look like you're very sick and this is the place thats suposed to heal people... Are you taking pills... or some how migrane head aches make you last. I'd think a bad headache would make me lose an erection.
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