cdm369 Posted January 11, 2012 Posted January 11, 2012 I was engaged to the mother of my 3 kids. We were married once before and after 10 years and 2 bad relationships we decide to try again. There were trust issues the first time around as she had an affair. I decided to give it a second chance thinking we are more mature now and we have grown up. Over the last couple months I've had a feeling that something was up. A couple times she's not been where she said she was and tonight I put a GPS unit in her vehicle and found that she left work for a 2 hour period. Oh and ACCIDENTALLY took my keys so I was stuck at home. She didn't know the gps was there and hung up on me long enough to try and think up lies. Said a friend borrowed her vehicle. Anyway I told her I was tired of all the BS and that I couldn't deal with it anymore. Just would like to know I did the right thing? Thoughts please.
TigerCub Posted January 11, 2012 Posted January 11, 2012 I was engaged to the mother of my 3 kids. We were married once before and after 10 years and 2 bad relationships we decide to try again. There were trust issues the first time around as she had an affair. I decided to give it a second chance thinking we are more mature now and we have grown up. Over the last couple months I've had a feeling that something was up. A couple times she's not been where she said she was and tonight I put a GPS unit in her vehicle and found that she left work for a 2 hour period. Oh and ACCIDENTALLY took my keys so I was stuck at home. She didn't know the gps was there and hung up on me long enough to try and think up lies. Said a friend borrowed her vehicle. Anyway I told her I was tired of all the BS and that I couldn't deal with it anymore. Just would like to know I did the right thing? Thoughts please. Well you obviously don't trust her. You shouldn't be in a relationship where you need to spy on your partner.
Emilia Posted January 11, 2012 Posted January 11, 2012 You've been posting about this for months so obviously it's been going on for a while
FitChick Posted January 11, 2012 Posted January 11, 2012 You owe it to your kids to go for some type of marriage counseling.
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