Anela Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 If you had to pass as many ridiculous qualifiers as men do, you and most other women would've given up a long time ago. I already have. I gave up on it when I was younger, too, allowing for someone to possibly come along and surprise me in a good way. I didn't want my life to revolve around men, and I'm so glad that it didn't, and doesn't now.
Anela Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 I'm with you. Amurrcans as a culture are sports fans, very different from cultures like say, Germany, where people prefer quiet individual consistency over memorable personalities that fight for a color. It's the consequence of a large, individualist, cosmopolitan, multicultural country IMO, people get their latent need to belong to a group via their politics or sports teams rather than their nation or community.People should know better than to classify an entire nation of people as being one (bad) way, whilst separating themselves as the smart, elite few that don't fall into that same category. I'm part American, part Brit, with both sides being made up of blood from other nationalities.
Author Wolf18 Posted January 12, 2012 Author Posted January 12, 2012 People should know better than to classify an entire nation of people as being one (bad) way, whilst separating themselves as the smart, elite few that don't fall into that same category. [/Quote] Yeah I guess you have a point... Just kidding, I'm in a seperate smart elite and do think I'm morally, intellectually, and spiritually superior to 99% of America. I already have. I gave up on it when I was younger, too, allowing for someone to possibly come along and surprise me in a good way. I didn't want my life to revolve around men, and I'm so glad that it didn't, and doesn't now. [/Quote] Pics or it didn't happen.
fitgirl Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 I looked up her forum posts, and there was one about her lamenting about how lonely she felt in NYC and how she wanted to date someone so badly, but can't find a compatible in personality guy whose taller than her (she was 5'11). I'm 5'8 , so it's a pretty good guess to think she rejected me for being 3 inches shorter. I think it's a lot rarer to find someone who has very specific tastes like these in common with you, and hence more valuable, than it is to find someone whose taller or shorter or any other idiocy. Oh well, hopefuly she will die alone . girls are allowed to have preferences. you are mean.
fitgirl Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 condescending liberal fags who are always talking about Ghanian Rice Cookies and carbon footprints. ewwwwww yuck ick. a bigot. i wouldn't date you if i were single.
Author Wolf18 Posted January 12, 2012 Author Posted January 12, 2012 ewwwwww yuck ick. a bigot. i wouldn't date you if i were single. Ewwwww yuck, ick, the very stereotype you quoted girls are allowed to have preferences. you are mean. [/Quote] Sure they do. What they're not allowed to do is complain about being lonely when they spurn every man under 6'2 no matter how many mutual interests she shares with them.
Anela Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 Pics or it didn't happen. If you were smarter, then you wouldn't be on here complaining about women so much. Don't know what you're getting at with the comment above.
Anela Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 Sure they do. What they're not allowed to do is complain about being lonely when they spurn every man under 6'2 no matter how many mutual interests she shares with them. Which would mean that you don't get complain about being lonely, either, when you're overlooking the three different types of girls that you mentioned in your first post on this thread.
fitgirl Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 Ewwwww yuck, ick, the very stereotype you quoted Sure they do. What they're not allowed to do is complain about being lonely when they spurn every man under 6'2 no matter how many mutual interests she shares with them. bigoted words get an ewwwwwwwwwwwwww. girls can have preferences. girls shouldn't settle.
ScreamingTrees Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 Which would mean that you don't get complain about being lonely, either, when you're overlooking the three different types of girls that you mentioned in your first post on this thread. What types of girls did he mention? He mentioned three situations where he seemed to have something going, but they lost interest in HIM for whatever reason, if I recall correctly.. As a matter of fact, he's actually stated that his only physical requirement would be that they're a healthy weight. (Not obese.) I believe him. I also don't believe that it's unreasonable, especially if he's physically healthy. It's not something that he can't also offer.. A basic, universal preference that can be controlled.
Dust Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 Ewwwww yuck, ick, the very stereotype you quoted Sure they do. What they're not allowed to do is complain about being lonely when they spurn every man under 6'2 no matter how many mutual interests she shares with them. Look I myself am not under 6'2 but until I was 22 I did horible with women. Because I was my own worst enemy. You sir are your own worst enemy when it comes to women. You seem to know your a smart cool guy but you're all caught up in feeling sorry for yourself. I had a friend back then who did great with women. In my opinion I was much better looking then him, I was certainly a lot taller the guy couldn't have been more then 5'7 or 5'8 tops. This guy was an ahole and did great with women. Seriously me and all my friends call him the maniac. Yes he's that guy. Whats my point. Well instead of saying to myself I'm great but women only want to date ugly maniacs... I said you know what if he can do it so can I. Really you have it better then me Wolf you say you tasted sucess most of your life and it ended at 19... I had rejected myself until at 22 I had enough. It was as simple as changing my attitude. Getting, bedding, and having a gf isn't that fricken hard at all. The thing I struggle with these days wouldn't be finding a girl who will agree to date me or have sex. It would be finding a girl I want to spend a long time with. Bottom line I have a friend who is 5'2 now. Great guy beautiful gf. This guy always has a pretty gf. He lives at home with his mother and I'd be very suprised if he makes even 40k a year. The job title he has isn't something sexy like Lion Tamer or Doctor either. Think office clerk or some crap. He's 5'2... for all I know he's lying and actually 5'1... The first thing the guy says is you get taller? Yet he has a hot gf and had a hot gf before that and is a cool guy who talks to women... You just feel sorry for yourself. Are women picky... YES... Does being Tall help with a lot of women... YES... Can you still do well with women even though you don't make much and arn't tall... YES
Lobouspo Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 I thought this was a cool experiment wolf, so i tried it myself...starting this afternoon. Two responses so far, and I actually just met one of them. Near the end of dinner she is messaging a guy on the effing dating site!! I AM SERIOUS....Guess i wont pursue that one
Dust Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 I thought this was a cool experiment wolf, so i tried it myself...starting this afternoon. Two responses so far, and I actually just met one of them. Near the end of dinner she is messaging a guy on the effing dating site!! I AM SERIOUS....Guess i wont pursue that one Damn see you already met a girl. Howd she look in person?
Lobouspo Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 DUST----She was not bad looking at all. 14 years younger than me, I'm 37. Some tatts and piercings, not really my type. Some daddy issues I think, her last two exes were 13 years and 21 years older. When she told me that one beat her up and the other raped her, I was like Yikes...CHECK PLEASE!!!
Dust Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 DUST----She was not bad looking at all. 14 years younger than me, I'm 37. Some tatts and piercings, not really my type. Some daddy issues I think, her last two exes were 13 years and 21 years older. When she told me that one beat her up and the other raped her, I was like Yikes...CHECK PLEASE!!! Not bad looking at all... that means only good looking. So she tells people about beatings and rape right upon meeting them... You should have had some fun with her! As for internet dating I guess its working for you guys. I still stand by real world is where its at. It's just while on the internet a guy seems brave enough to send a msg "hey I like that too" but in real life he has trouble saying to the girl in the supermarket who has cherios in her cart "hey I like that too" and seeing where things gooooooooooooooooo
Author Wolf18 Posted January 12, 2012 Author Posted January 12, 2012 I took the quizzes and got a match that was 97% which I thought was quite high. I messaged all the girls who were over 90% "matches" (maybe 5-6) and didn't get any responses. I took off my income and made it private but I do tell people what my job is (I'm not ashamed, it's the truth and I like my job) and it's a pretty blue collar job so women can just assume you dont make much money. I've gotten quite a few visitors though. I don't know what this says, but I'm not thinking anything of it. My preconceived notions of online dating have all been proven right. Unless you're 6'8 or have a good job or have one of those try-too-hard-lift-up-your-shirt-showing-off-your sixpack pictures , or a woman, it's pointless. If I don't get any responses by tonight i'm going to take it down.
TheBigQuestion Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 My preconceived notions of online dating have all been proven right. Unless you're 6'8 or have a good job or have one of those try-too-hard-lift-up-your-shirt-showing-off-your sixpack pictures , or a woman, it's pointless. If I don't get any responses by tonight i'm going to take it down. 6'8"? Wolf, you have really mastered the art of exaggeration.
Author Wolf18 Posted January 13, 2012 Author Posted January 13, 2012 6'8"? Wolf, you have really mastered the art of exaggeration. Yeah well , like *twirls hair and chews gum with mouth open* 6'2 might be ok too ya know, like , I need to feel protected and like stuff. No bully or mugger will mess with me as long as I've got this 6'3 stud/lion tamer tall glass of water protecting me from the world http://26.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l9nni1dIpO1qcgk08o1_500.jpg
betterdeal Posted January 13, 2012 Posted January 13, 2012 This thread is priceless. I'm loving the way people defend a woman's right to want a tall man, by berating a man for being a bit pissed off with it. - I reject you! - You suck! - Don't tell her she sucks
Dust Posted January 13, 2012 Posted January 13, 2012 This thread is priceless. I'm loving the way people defend a woman's right to want a tall man, by berating a man for being a bit pissed off with it. - I reject you! - You suck! - Don't tell her she sucks For it against it reality is reality. Guys who are tall have an advantage. They can quickly lose any and all advantage as being tall does not gaurantee anything. Shorter guys get hot women and do well with women all the time. Yes it's in spite of being short. Not all women care if a guy is short and even the girls who do care can be converted. Having a bad attitude is not going to help anything. Internet dating is lame the OP knows that so for him to get all upset after 48 hours is silly. He's a cool guy he'd do well with women if he actually tried. He doesn't want to try, he isn't horny enough yet.
Author Wolf18 Posted January 13, 2012 Author Posted January 13, 2012 This thread is priceless. I'm loving the way people defend a woman's right to want a tall man, by berating a man for being a bit pissed off with it. - I reject you! - You suck! - Don't tell her she sucks Well when it comes to things like this people in our culture have a "You Go Girl" mentality. Just now I was looking at a girl who came up as a 93% "match", I liked her profile, it was thoughtful . She writes about how shallow the world is, her newfound interest in buddhism (something I could talk hours about), how people don't have any intensity anymore, how celebrities are the new artistocrats and about women's body issues (she apparently has a bunch of scars on her body in a disclaimer, something I could care less about but the 6'3 rich alec baldwin man of her dreams would probably say something about). Then, low and behold, this little brunette probably around 100 lbs 5'3 girl says on the bottom "Only message me if you're tall". I messaged her anyway hoping she could atleast make one exception , she visited back but nothing. Not even some pleasent conversation about our mutual interests. Of course I'm supposed to say "well shes not right for me anyway". I will say shes a shallow b*tch, but I wouldn't say she would not be right or compatible with me. She is. She just doesn't like how I look. You Go Girl, never "settle" !
Author Wolf18 Posted January 13, 2012 Author Posted January 13, 2012 (edited) For it against it reality is reality. Guys who are tall have an advantage. They can quickly lose any and all advantage as being tall does not gaurantee anything. Shorter guys get hot women and do well with women all the time. Yes it's in spite of being short. Not all women care if a guy is short and even the girls who do care can be converted. Having a bad attitude is not going to help anything. Internet dating is lame the OP knows that so for him to get all upset after 48 hours is silly. He's a cool guy he'd do well with women if he actually tried. He doesn't want to try, he isn't horny enough yet. I agree with you, but the thing is, I want a girl I actually...like. A girl I can actually talk to about things we're both interested in. Is that too much to ask? Apparently it is. Like I said, I'm sure if I hit on 100 (or a thousand judging from my experiences recently) random women, one will say yes and I will get laid. But this system sucks if you actually want a lover and a friend, instead of a **** buddy you spend 20 minutes with a week. The reason I don't take my own advice to the virgins here is I'm not trying to get laid (while other guys here are). Of course I won't complain of easy pussy comes into my life, but my priority right now is to get a girlfriend, and it's looking more impossible every day. Edited January 13, 2012 by Wolf18
Dust Posted January 13, 2012 Posted January 13, 2012 Well when it comes to things like this people in our culture have a "You Go Girl" mentality. Just now I was looking at a girl who came up as a 93% "match", I liked her profile, it was thoughtful . She writes about how shallow the world is, her newfound interest in buddhism (something I could talk hours about), how people don't have any intensity anymore, how celebrities are the new artistocrats and about women's body issues (she apparently has a bunch of scars on her body in a disclaimer, something I could care less about but the 6'3 rich alec baldwin man of her dreams would probably say something about). Then, low and behold, this little brunette probably around 100 lbs 5'3 girl says on the bottom "Only message me if you're tall". I messaged her anyway hoping she could atleast make one exception , she visited back but nothing. Not even some pleasent conversation about our mutual interests. Of course I'm supposed to say "well shes not right for me anyway". I will say shes a shallow b*tch, but I wouldn't say she would not be right or compatible with me. She is. She just doesn't like how I look. You Go Girl, never "settle" ! Look man its internet dating... you know how lame internet dating is. You seriously might as well add 3 inches to your height. heck just put down 6'3. Seriosly haha You could have msged the girl hey I really like your pictures/profile but I noticed you're looking for a tall guy. Baby when you're me you'll feel like I'm 7 foot tall. I agree with you, but the thing is, I want a girl I actually...like. A girl I can actually talk to about things we're both interested in. Is that too much to ask? Apparently it is. Like I said, I'm sure if I hit on 100 (or a thousand judging from my experiences recently) random women, one will say yes and I will get laid. But this system sucks if you actually want a lover and a friend, instead of a **** buddy you spend 20 minutes with a week. The reason I don't take my own advice to the virgins here is I'm not trying to get laid (while other guys here are). Of course I won't complain of easy pussy comes into my life, but my priority right now is to get a girlfriend, and it's looking more impossible every day. Look man its all obviously a numbers game to you if you're counting up the number of women you have to talk to/flirt with before you get a gf. Just live life and keep on going till you find your woman. Also you seem way to into having girls like you. If there is one thing I have learned its that girls really like a guy who likes them. Stop the internet dating you're not that short. Dude I'm 6'3-6'2 depending on how you measure me. I'm good looking and have what you would call a sexy job. I wouldn't be caught dead relying on internet dating... NO. Yes being tall helps a fricken lot. Butt I have all my short friends who do good with women, I also have a tall friend who does horible. I have a short friend, the guy seems mentaly slow, his job is lame... I'll just say it he's like overnight mall security or something. He lives at home with his mother. The guy always has a hot gf as far back as I've known the guy. I always thought I was good looking. But I was afraid of women for the longest time. When I stopped being afraid and just had fun being a horny guy it all worked out so good. You've got scared. Stop complaining about this stuff and do something about it! Internet dating is not something for you to rely on or get upset about. Real world is where its at!
dasein Posted January 13, 2012 Posted January 13, 2012 OLD - it's a skill that requires practice. When I first started it, I was 20 lbs overweight and my profile picture was an unshowered pic of me in a wifebeater with a big red zit on my nose, uncombed hair and bloodshot eyes. I was skeptical about OLD so took it as a joke. It took some time to get response...lol. I looked at hundreds of male profiles, took a bunch of pics of myself, worked on the profile. After the equivalent of about a month of daily gym workouts of OLD work and analysis over several months (without the sweat), I was able to 1) only write the toptop female profiles in a large metro area, send out ten emails and get 70% response, 2) have nearly every woman I took out willing and pushing for sex very early. I'm 5'10.5" very average looking, but very smart and good at listening. You have to be -smart- to make this work, You are a very smart guy, wolf and can work this provided you are willing to learn how to really listen to women and understand what they want. This starts in the OLD contact process. They send out tells every minute, every sentence in the profile, that are like little clues as to how to get them thinking sexually. You can't create basic attraction out of thin air, but if you have passed the attraction test, it's all in listening/reading for and pushing buttons. If she likes cannibal porn, SO WHAT? Does it make her horny talking about cannibal porn in a certain way? NOW we are talking. I have faith you can pull this off. Once you learn it, it's like riding a bike and you will always know if you get lonely you can pull one or two off the net at will. It's very hard to put into words, but you will know you are doing it right when they start initiating makeout sessions in crowded restaurants, even pulling their clothes part off in public. I didn't even start this til 30, so you are ahead of the game. Time and practice. Height - Tired of seeing tall guys pile on male posters around here for griping about height. Have some human decency and shut the f up about height and women if you are over 6' tall. It really really rings like "let them eat cake" no matter how many don juan midget friends you have. There are plenty of women and regular height guys around to beat up on shorter posters here, your piling on too won't be missed, trust me. The most disgusting human being I've ever known: heroin addict 3 pack a day red smoker alcoholic, peed in his floor every other night, his apt smelled like a sewer bad dye job ugly, and not in a rugged way, just plain ugly completely self absorbed not funny, dull and boring bad breath... really bad cowardly, would run and hide at the first sign of trouble, not a standup guy not bright, not witty, not clever, ignorant of most every subject broke 6'5" always had a line of hot women waiting to be with him. Same with every other tall guy I've known in my life, other virtues notwithstanding. That's the truth about height and it's completely understandable that men gripe about this shallow, thoroughly vain female preference. Tall men accentuate high heels on a woman better and the equivalent of a "trophy" among competitive women is a tall guy. All the "protected" "stronger" crap is just that, made up crap. It's all vanity.
FitChick Posted January 13, 2012 Posted January 13, 2012 I used to work with a tall guy, who was rather attractive, made decent money, owned his house and another rental property, educated, yet was still a virgin at 40. He was a whiner and eventually turned off everyone, male and female. He expected a woman to take pity on him and have sex. Very passive guy.
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