Rita86 Posted January 10, 2012 Posted January 10, 2012 But... What does it mean When a guy stares at you? I caught one of my collegues staring me several times while with his group of friends. This wasn't the first time. However he hasn't made a move even though i made the effort last time to go and talk to him. So I'm really confused. If he's not interested why always check me?
Untouchable_Fire Posted January 10, 2012 Posted January 10, 2012 He may not be available, but still think you are attractive. Or maybe you just look like an xGF... or this babysitter he had when he was a kid... ect. Millions of reasons. If you want him to ask you out... flirt with him. Match his stare, then look down very briefly... then match his stare again.
tman666 Posted January 10, 2012 Posted January 10, 2012 Does he look anything like this? I'm sure you're just overthinking a casual, harmless glance.
Author Rita86 Posted January 10, 2012 Author Posted January 10, 2012 Does he look anything like this? I'm sure you're just overthinking a casual, harmless glance. Definitely not overthinking this. I've caught him Check out my ass before
kaylan Posted January 10, 2012 Posted January 10, 2012 sometimes I just check out girls because thats what guys do....doesnt always means I want to make a move.
tman666 Posted January 10, 2012 Posted January 10, 2012 Definitely not overthinking this. I've caught him Check out my ass before Then he's either a) committed in relationship already or b) too afraid to walk through the door you've opened for him (you mentioned that you made a point to go talk with him). I suggest (if you're interested in him) that you keep talking to him, find out if he's single, make it clear that you you're open to being asked out, etc.
Dust Posted January 10, 2012 Posted January 10, 2012 haha I'm so used to this question being posted by guys here. As others of said a) he likes you and is working up the nerve to do something. In that case you may be waiting for ever. You'd litteraly have to ask out a guy like this no hint or smile or conversation would be enought till he himself works up the nerve. b) he's just looking at you because he enjoys the way you look but has no plans to ask you out. c) he's just looking at you. Probably A or B...
Feelsgoodman Posted January 10, 2012 Posted January 10, 2012 (edited) But... What does it mean When a guy stares at you? I caught one of my collegues staring me several times while with his group of friends. This wasn't the first time. However he hasn't made a move even though i made the effort last time to go and talk to him. So I'm really confused. If he's not interested why always check me? Nowadays, a guy is not going to make a move on a female colleague unless he's got sh*t for brains or simply doesn't care about being fired. False sexual harassment allegations are so commonplace, it takes a special kind of moron to make a move on a woman he works with. To be clear, I'm talking about the professional/office setting. Things made be different in service type jobs where people don't really care about being fired. Edited January 10, 2012 by Feelsgoodman
FitChick Posted January 10, 2012 Posted January 10, 2012 It's never a good idea to date someone you work with. Maybe he saw some naked pictures of you on the internet.
jobaba Posted January 10, 2012 Posted January 10, 2012 But... What does it mean When a guy stares at you? I caught one of my collegues staring me several times while with his group of friends. This wasn't the first time. However he hasn't made a move even though i made the effort last time to go and talk to him. So I'm really confused. If he's not interested why always check me? Nothing. I stare at women I don't find particularly attractive all the time.
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