rd1978 Posted June 1, 2004 Posted June 1, 2004 got a question ,,, single for a month now,,she hung outw/ other people so did i,, i have more of an idea of what she ahs been doing because my friends tell me when they see her out,, she hasnt got a clue about me or what ive been up to,,, it's a long story but im keeping it as short as possible,, havent talked in over 2 weeks,, she says she is really confused,, feels different,,,she also just got a new job etc ..etc.. so i told her if this is how she feels she can in no way contact me anymore,, so i got phone calls from an hour after that untill 4 days later ,, but i didnt awnser any of them,, {I was honest with her on how i felt and what i wanted} so i figured there was no reason to talk to her and that she needed a little reality check..... being honest with her made the situation worse,, no i wasnt crying or begging or anything silly like that it was just a nromal conversation,, now there is also another guy involved to what extent i dont know but i did see her holding his hand when i was out 1 night,,,, it was like she was runnign around with her new prize ,, but the kid was not good looking really skinny and seemed like a punk,, he just gave her the interest to make her feel better then she called me for days in a row and i finally awnsered and she was like i miss you,, so i said it didnt look like you missed me the other night while you were holding his hand ,, then she was like but i thaught i liked him,, but i miss you .. and im really confused because i dont know if things will change like you say they will,{ she is very insecure } So i said you cant call anymore again,, and the calls kept coming then stopped 2 weeks later again now she is instant messaging me!!!!!!? i do love her and i dont want to ignore her but there is no way she is going to have her cake and eat it to!!! SO DO I TALK TO THIS GIRL IN A NORMAL MANNER AND SHE WHAT SHE WANTS,,IS SHE JUST SEEING IF I WILL TALK TO HER?,, DOES SHE MISS ME,, I HAVE ALREADY TOLD HER HOW I FEEL AND HOW I WANT THIGNS TO BE ,, BUT IF IT ISNT WHAT SHE WANT'S THEN IM MOVING ON.... it does seem that she runs to this kid when i dont talk to her and he does seem like a big factor although,, i think he just gives her all the complements and whatnot like anything new and fresh,, but i told her to realize after 4 months what happens,, WHAT ABOUT IF SHE STARTS ASKING IF I HAVE BEEN SEEING ANYONE? let me remind you she has no clue what ive been up to.... AND HER BIGGEST FEAR WAS LOOSING ME FOREVER AND BEING STUCK BY HERSELF IF SHE TOOK THE TIME TO THINK,,,,,i havent contaced her at all she contacts me I am almost confident that she wants to be with me sounds silly at this point ,, but will be realized when she comes off her high horse
estakado Posted June 1, 2004 Posted June 1, 2004 Originally posted by rd1978 I HAVE ALREADY TOLD HER HOW I FEEL AND HOW I WANT THIGNS TO BE ,, BUT IF IT ISNT WHAT SHE WANT'S THEN IM MOVING ON.... Keep any conversation with her shortm 5 Mins max. Move on bro.
quyster Posted June 3, 2004 Posted June 3, 2004 Oh, brother. Reading your story is like looking at mine in the mirror. My ex-gf broke up with me, ignoring me, treating me bad for like 2 months. I found out that she was dating this guy. She told her friend that he's hella sweet, gave her affection, and all that chit. ( I know man, this guy just do all that to get in her pants, I know this game. But the girl is stupid enough to believe, lol) I was stupid enough to trip over her. Then I decided to move on, cut all contacts. Then she calls me like 30 times a day. Cries in voice mail, cry on phone, saying how much she misses me, she still loves me, why i have to end everything, (when she broke up wit me)........ So I got soften and be nice to her back. But the nicer I am the worst it comes back. Even worst, two day after she cries and do all that chit. Her friend told me that she goes to Las Vegas with her friends and that guy is there too. Man, I got so pissed. Let me tell you. Don't listen to her. They are lying shack of **** after they're not loving you anymore. Don't fall for it.
Author rd1978 Posted June 3, 2004 Author Posted June 3, 2004 well here is the deal, we had a diff relationship,, i have alot of frriends that are girls ,, good looking girls,, none that i have an interest in other than physical,, she is very very jelious of them,, it drove her nuts,, i never gave her the attention ,, or the loving she deserved,, i never truly showed her how much i cared,, she put all her effort in,, i fig why make the divorce rate go up even more,, all theses people run off and get married right away,, {if its meant to be itll be} so regardless i never put the extra effort into it and still had all the chicks,,,,,,,,,,, SO i guess it drove her up the wall,, but if she wasnt so insecure and buggin me about it so much then i would have spent more time with her and showed her more feelings,,, it was just { a stupid cycle then went on and on} its easy enough to be fixed,,,, so this other dude has been asking her to hang out forever and wants to be more than friends,, she got a new job ,, started tanning hanging out with her sloppy friends,,, must have got a big doseso she just flipped her lid { AND WAS PROB LIKE IM GOING TO SHOW HIM} i dont need him and started going all the same places as me holding this guys hand,, { this guy isnt good looking } and will end up getting hurt i guarentee it,, If the tables were turned and she saw me with another girl she would lose her mind,,,,,,, ITs a big stupid game ,, oh you want me ,,now i dont want you /// you dont pay attention to me i want you now.. SO STUPID AND CHILDISH,,, i told her from the begingin no games i love you and heres' what i can do to make it work....... if this isnt what you want then you cannot call me for like at least 2 months,, and if you change your mind and im seeing somone else then your going to have to deal with it,,,, so she calls and what not but i dont awnser so maybe ill awnser but i dont want to give her the comfort of the fact that im talking to her,,, i know how much she cares and loves me she is in her own little dream world right now,, { what goes up must come down} she hasnt got a clue to what ive been up to fro the past couple of weeks so im sure the mind is wandering,,,, or i could be totally off on this and she wants to be friends ,, but in this situation i dont think so, 2 months ago she was at my house crying her eyes out sayiing i want to make this work im going to do everything to make this work... balah blah.... but this other guy is the thing that is making problems ,, but im sure he will get old and the excitment will diminish and she will think about what she's done more and more// so i say to myself why do i waste my time there are many of other NICE NORMAL girls out there,, but after 5 years its not so easy,, so on that not i go out and have my fun
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