Teuen101 Posted January 10, 2012 Posted January 10, 2012 My ex dumped me, that very week hooked up with a new guy her facebook status changed to a relationship with him. She dumps him in a month next day hooks up with some new guy she met at work ..I guess she likes this one better. with in a week of hooking up with him moved in with him. He is sperated from his wife of 5 years for the last 3 months and they have a 2 year old. My question is this: My ex seems like she is on cloud nine ? I don't get it, ? it's like plug and play but for men !~ sad just sad
ken_25 Posted January 10, 2012 Posted January 10, 2012 She's not happy, I think there is a very good chance she is broken on the inside. She'll probably make her way back to you eventually, don't fall for it.
wilsonx Posted January 10, 2012 Posted January 10, 2012 so why are you focused on someone else's happiness when yourself arent happy
betterdeal Posted January 10, 2012 Posted January 10, 2012 She's doing what she wants to do. What are you doing?
BoredAgain Posted January 10, 2012 Posted January 10, 2012 Teuen - Frankly, the actions of your Ex don't sound like the actions of a happy person. Even if she's projecting the image of bliss, you should be skeptical of it. But Wilson makes a good point too. You should focus on your own happiness, not hers.
Author Teuen101 Posted January 10, 2012 Author Posted January 10, 2012 so why are you focused on someone else's happiness when yourself arent happy I'm self talking here or thinking out loud you know how it is =) just hit me all the sudden at work...I wont contact her just thinking out loud. I'm getting better every day !
Chs Posted January 10, 2012 Posted January 10, 2012 Some girls are just good at replacing you with someone else. After my ex and i broke it off she met a new guy after a month, and a week later they were almost officially in a relationship. I think it's because girls have a bigger need of comfort and feeling secure. She was still thinking about me from time to time, i know because she would text me hearts and nicknames, but she is no doubt happy with him and have been for 2 months now. All there is to do is move on, get rid of your emotions or it will turn ugly. She will most likely never come back once you have been replaced with someone else.
smudge21 Posted January 10, 2012 Posted January 10, 2012 A dumper breaks up mentally with someone way before they break up physically with them. In other words, dumpers get past the emotional side of things long before they even announce a break up. For many, they try to make things work, but during that time, their emotional state is pushing them further away from the one they're with. By the time the break up comes, they're at the stage of healing and looking forward to the future, whereas for the dumpees, it's all sudden and new.
wilsonx Posted January 10, 2012 Posted January 10, 2012 I'm self talking here or thinking out loud you know how it is =) just hit me all the sudden at work...I wont contact her just thinking out loud. I'm getting better every day ! Touche =) Good job
Author Teuen101 Posted January 11, 2012 Author Posted January 11, 2012 Wilson bro, I know you and smokey been getting loads of flack but I donno what I would done without you both.. Keep posting never stop !
wilsonx Posted January 11, 2012 Posted January 11, 2012 Soon as the ex comes back, im retiring... As for people that dont care, let the haters hate... I SAW MACK05 TURN, I almost pissed in my pants on a post the other day. I never thought he would figure it out
DannyT27 Posted January 11, 2012 Posted January 11, 2012 My ex seems very happy wiv her new fella we've been split 2.5 mnths and they've been together just over 2 months... I couldn't quite understand how they go from a long relationship straight into another one and cut all ties, still can't get my head around it
Pens55 Posted January 11, 2012 Posted January 11, 2012 I've got to agree that they are not happy...unless they were seeing this person before and made a calculated decision that they>you. But in my experience, those who jump that quickly simply postpone their pain by finding a replacement. Or, they are unhappy with themselves in general and hope that a SO will fill the void.
Author Teuen101 Posted January 11, 2012 Author Posted January 11, 2012 I think they are trying to fill the void too...after enough hurt has happend we all grow up a little and see our selfs the way we should.
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