pinkie Posted January 9, 2012 Posted January 9, 2012 "I hope you had a great birthday!" I mean really?! So what was the point in that?
BoredAgain Posted January 9, 2012 Posted January 9, 2012 Third that. She's sending out her feelers, hoping for some sort of response. "What's the point?" you ask... there are lots of possible reasons but it's usually something selfish.
flitzanu Posted January 10, 2012 Posted January 10, 2012 i got one of those too. but mine was more shrouded. "oh i wasn't at a calendar yesterday, happy late birthday!" it means they know your birthday. and they want to make you crazy.
smudge21 Posted January 10, 2012 Posted January 10, 2012 I hope you had a great birthday too... That's just a stranger online wishing you well and you should think of that in the same way you think of this. Hey ho, thanks for that, now where's the rest of that birthday cake?
Jono85 Posted January 10, 2012 Posted January 10, 2012 sometimes a text is just a text for once i agree with this guy. i don't know your situation at all, but ppl on here seem to react very negatively whenever a dumper makes any sort of contact with the dumpee post breakup. when in actuality, many of these dumpers still care for the dumpee, they're just no longer in love with them. imagine ur ex didn't want to wish u happy birthday on the day of, b/c he/she thought it might mess with ur day or something. we all know as soon as an ex dumper sends any kind of contact to us, we tell our close friends, we analyze the meaning behind it, etc etc etc. maybe in this case he/she just didn't want to interfere with ur day, and so they texted u that the day after, to let u know they still care about u and hope all is well. it doesn't have to be breadcrumbs, it's just a happy birthday text lol.
Million.to.1 Posted January 10, 2012 Posted January 10, 2012 for once i agree with this guy. i don't know your situation at all, but ppl on here seem to react very negatively whenever a dumper makes any sort of contact with the dumpee post breakup. when in actuality, many of these dumpers still care for the dumpee, they're just no longer in love with them. imagine ur ex didn't want to wish u happy birthday on the day of, b/c he/she thought it might mess with ur day or something. we all know as soon as an ex dumper sends any kind of contact to us, we tell our close friends, we analyze the meaning behind it, etc etc etc. maybe in this case he/she just didn't want to interfere with ur day, and so they texted u that the day after, to let u know they still care about u and hope all is well. it doesn't have to be breadcrumbs, it's just a happy birthday text lol. Totally agree!
wow123 Posted January 11, 2012 Posted January 11, 2012 Every situation is different, but read my thread. She called the day after my bday to wish me a happy bday after NC. Turned into her asking me out and breaking up with her bf only to get back with him and leave me in the dust without even telling me.
Author pinkie Posted January 11, 2012 Author Posted January 11, 2012 Thanks everyone for your replies, especially those from WilsonX and Jono85, objective insight. *Smudge21- lol Wow123.... I'm so sorry.
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