thr1986 Posted January 9, 2012 Posted January 9, 2012 I'm 25. Met this girl who is a roomate of a friend (girl) from college. We immediately hit it off in the sense that we hooked up the second time I ever saw her. I felt like she liked me, and mutual girl friends of ours are always telling me she thinks I'm cute and to go for her if I want to. I decided to ask her to dinner and she said she had other plans with her cousin and couldent. However we hooked up a couple of times before and after I asked her to dinner, then the holidays came and we didn't really talk for a couple weeks as we both were traveling. I pretty much wrote it off with the holidays. Decided to give up on it. Then Friday night she texts me asking what I'm doing, I tell her im exhausted and staying in, which was true. She texts me at 1:30 am asking if I'm awake and then says she misses me. I don't answer until the next day (Saturday) and tell her "I know, we need to hang out". She then invites me to watch a movie at her house Saturday night which I accepted. Saturday night I go over there, end up sleeping over and again we hook up. Today I was texting get and then ask if she wants to come out for drinks with me for the natl. Championship game tonight. She says she has some kind of meeting at 7:30 and then going to hang with some of her girl friends who are having girls over. But suggests maybe afterwards she can join, but says she does not know how late she will be. Basically saying she can't get drinks. Why does she act like she likes me and why do our mutual friends (all girls) tell me she likes me but then she keeps avoiding my invitations? I can't figure this out and am giving up I guess unless someone has some good advice here. Thanks guys!
Oxy Moronovich Posted January 9, 2012 Posted January 9, 2012 Perhaps she's playing hard to get. You should start looking at other women, nevertheless.
Ninjainpajamas Posted January 9, 2012 Posted January 9, 2012 Who cares!...well maybe you, but just keep hooking up with this girl, she obviously doesn't mind coming over in the middle of the night or having you go over to watch "movies". In fact you should just cut to the chase be a little more aggressive, and see her in the the middle of the night more often. I think it's obvious she isn't into you to the point where she wants to date you, a girl that wants to be with you will make other plans or even cancel her plans but tell you she is free just to hang out with you. She's giving you the run around, so you can take the booty call treatment (which I'd suggest) or just drop it and move on to someone who is more into you or just wants a relationship. But in the meantime, why not have a side thing going?
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