daisydukes Posted January 9, 2012 Posted January 9, 2012 My ex came over to my house to drop off some things he had of mine and we got to talking and pretty soon ( because he was drinking) he started talking about how he slept with a girl 3 months ago ( which was when we were dating) and he then went on and said I still sleep with her today. I was a little upset but it isn't my problem anymore it is his GF not mine. I feel bad for his new girlfriend. She thinks he is sooooo faithful when in reality he is sleeping around on her and he also said he is sleeping with another girl too. He asked me if I wanted to sleep with him and I said no way not after everything you told me! He even says he likes filming his sex conquests ( eww) I am so glad I am not with him anymore. I honestly think he has a sex addiction because he cannot get enough of sex and he has a girlfriend but clearly it is not enough. I just hope I do not wind up with any diseases now that I find out what a male **** he is now.
Bsham Posted January 9, 2012 Posted January 9, 2012 Don't get involved. This guy still has life lessons to learn. One day his infidelity will come back to haunt him. Don't dwell on his cheating. Understand it wasn't you it's the fact he has not matured enough for relations. I'd advise not to let this girl know as it can cause conflict with you that is not needed. Soon enough she will find out. Hope you're OK.
Philosoraptor Posted January 9, 2012 Posted January 9, 2012 Be glad he is not your issue anymore then.
CaliBabe Posted January 9, 2012 Posted January 9, 2012 Good thing you are not with him anymore, and please go get yourself tested! YOU are YOUR top priority!
Author daisydukes Posted January 9, 2012 Author Posted January 9, 2012 I am not telling his girlfriend but I really,really feel bad for her. I saw her tweets and she always tweets on how happy she is and how amazing her life is right now when in reality if she only knew half the things her boyfriend is doing. I don't think he honestly even likes her because if he did he wouldn't be doing half the things he is doing right now. I think basically he is just using her because she can cook. He kept talking about how amazing of a chef she is and how she knows her way around the kitchen and her kitchen is so big it could be a restaurant kitchen and he went on and on and said how big her house is. I think he thinks ( IMHO) if he dates her she can take care of him. I feel so sorry for her... If she only knew.....
shayla Posted January 9, 2012 Posted January 9, 2012 I found out the same thing about my ex, the boyfriend I had for almost 3 years....I confronted the other woman, told her of our relationship, she told me of his past before they met (which is of course, during our relationship that was still going on) and I realized that this prick had been screwing around our entire relationship. I told her....i'm getting tested, you better get tested too...and if you marry him knowing what you know now? Who's the fool now because he is no longer my problem! She married him 2 months later. Good riddance.
Author daisydukes Posted January 9, 2012 Author Posted January 9, 2012 :sick:I guess it is more disappointment than anything else. I thought he was faithful the entire time we dated ( up until he found someone else) but he was sleeping with other people while he was dating me? He always told me how much he loved me and how much he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me and meanwhile he is sleeping with other people? Talk about a male ****. He is doing the exact same thing to this woman who hasn't a clue and will probably wind up pregnant ( because he wants to knock someone up) and she will be miserable because a guy like that can never change.
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