gofigerr Posted June 1, 2004 Posted June 1, 2004 I posted once today but really early this morning and im so wanting some help with this... my boyfriend and i used to have great sex and now nothing, weve known each other 7 years and have been living together for 2 years. hes almost left twice since moving in, in the very beginning and again about 2 months ago, both times he said he just wasnt happy, this last time he said he doesnt enjoy sex anymore, and he doesnt feel like he thinks he should feel afterwards, then he decided he wanted to stay because we get along so well and really are best friends, he says he was just stressed out from work, but he doesnt really get arroused anymore, its like he has to try, and now after all he said im finding it hard to enjoy myself, i feel like i should just make him go, i dont really think hes that attracted to me, i think he just likes the non physical part of the relationship and doesnt want to loose that, HELP! i really love this guy
uriel Posted June 3, 2004 Posted June 3, 2004 If he doesn't want to open up more and work on the relationship to make it what it should be, then yes, it's time to end it. Ask him if he'll go to couples counseling. Ask him if he'll commit to really making this better. Have the name of a therapist, maybe a scheduled appointment, already available so that you can stick him to it if he says yes. Even if you love him, you deserve to be happy too and feel loved in return. -- uriel
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