Lionblue92 Posted January 8, 2012 Posted January 8, 2012 For anyone unfamiliar with the previous thread i posted its: New Years Eve- Let Down http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=3795027#post3795027 Well....my ex and I are friends on facebook and he just posted this status to the world which is more, i feel, like a subliminal message to me, it says : they pop from dude to dude and wonder why we don't care....#MoreOfAReasonToCareLessEveryday ...I mean is he mad? it seemed like something would have sparked a status like this. He put this and i have not contated him, nor made any statuses about him, nor dated any guys right after him, even back to back in the past, not once since our break up. Which was only a week ago. On my own I cant understand WHY he put this up or what it MEANS so im asking you all what you think??
chelsea2011 Posted January 8, 2012 Posted January 8, 2012 Hmm...I read your other thread and something sounds fishy with him. Call me cynical, but reading both threads, it almost sounds like there was another girl in the picture. If there is no way the FB message can apply to you, then one has to wonder who the message was for...right? You should go complete NC and that includes not reading his FB page because it will only open the wound you are trying to heal.
Author Lionblue92 Posted January 8, 2012 Author Posted January 8, 2012 Fair assessment, but despite everything he did to me before the break up, he wasnt a bad boyfriend, and because I never allowed him to be, hence why I knew to break up with him. And with that said, I say with 99% confidence that there was no other girl involved during our relationship. So..then what?
Author Lionblue92 Posted January 8, 2012 Author Posted January 8, 2012 Hmm...I read your other thread and something sounds fishy with him. Call me cynical, but reading both threads, it almost sounds like there was another girl in the picture. If there is no way the FB message can apply to you, then one has to wonder who the message was for...right? You should go complete NC and that includes not reading his FB page because it will only open the wound you are trying to heal. I mean, is there really no possible way it can have something to do with me then in this case. I dont neccessarily have to actively be doing anything to him for him to be saying something.
chelsea2011 Posted January 8, 2012 Posted January 8, 2012 If you are that sure, then it could be any number of reasons. Maybe he was trying to get a reaction out of you or maybe he thinks there is someone else. Or, he could have posted it about one of his friend's situation.
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