TaurusTerp Posted January 11, 2012 Posted January 11, 2012 Oh yes...no one should dress a certain way, as dictated by the great TaurusTerp Troll more brah, im seriously amused. If im not being taken seriously, why the hell do girls give me compliments and why do I still get dates dressing the way I do? And trust me im not super good looking or rich. Just an average dude. Appearances do matter, so I must be doing something right since women respond positively to me. Please reply with more trollin' bro...I could use the show. http://i1029.photobucket.com/albums/y353/eunola/why-you-mad-tho.jpg Let me dumb this down for you, how about. This guy gets compliments and gets dates. He is not that good looking. http://mysterypua.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/mysterypua-200x300.jpg Is this a good way to dress? Just answer with a yes or no.
Wolf18 Posted January 11, 2012 Posted January 11, 2012 Let me dumb this down for you, how about. This guy gets compliments and gets dates. He is not that good looking. http://mysterypua.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/mysterypua-200x300.jpg Is this a good way to dress? Just answer with a yes or no. LOL! Just seeing the kind of mutants with stretched out ears, piercings, eyeliner, fuzzy top hats, etc getting girls almost makes being unattractive to women a badge of honor. Women make the wrong choice every time.
Wolf18 Posted January 11, 2012 Posted January 11, 2012 No disrespect Kaylan but I think you are pretty clueless and while your post isn't 'hating', you keep implying that my opinions come from hate which I find offensive. I can see why you rub people off the wrong way here sometimes. Clearly you ridicule what I find masculine because in some way that offends you (I'm guessing due to what other men in this thread have said) but for you to tell ME what I should view as masculine is actually dumb since it's down to the individual. I don't need to be lectured by an immature whipper snapper and being told to google anything when I talk about things I experience or see every day, I travel, I go to rugby matches, have been to football matches, I know what Jersey Shore is, I know what working class or middle class cultures are and live in a racially diverse city. I doubt very much you even own a passport and either way you have absolutely no idea what you are talking about in your last post, absolute nonsense. While Kaylan is obnoxious and all his opinions are pre-fabricated by MTV, a 40 something year old woman (I believe you said you were) who wants to date Jeff Spicoli california surfer 'dudes' has an equally retarded idea of a man. How come women don't like any normal men? \m/Hang Loose
kaylan Posted January 11, 2012 Posted January 11, 2012 LOL! Just seeing the kind of mutants with stretched out ears, piercings, eyeliner, fuzzy top hats, etc getting girls almost makes being unattractive to women a badge of honor. Women make the wrong choice every time. While I do have my ears stretched a bit and a couple piercings, I have not worn eyeliner since my high school punks days lol. Fuzzy top hats suck. Fitted baseball caps all the way. And sometimes a fedora =D While Kaylan is obnoxious and all his opinions are pre-fabricated by MTV, a 40 something year old woman (I believe you said you were) who wants to date Jeff Spicoli california surfer 'dudes' has an equally retarded idea of a man. How come women don't like any normal men? \m/Hang Loose LOLOL thats mean dude , but I lol'd tubular brah! \m/
SomewhatExperienced Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 I'd like say that I land somewhere between fashionable and boring in the sense that I am very much conscious about what I wear, but I tend to have my own style that is rather casual and conservative. At the same time I'm very aware of how my clothes fit my body and that my style resonates with my personality. In the same respect, that's what catches my interest, at least fashion-wise in a girl. I'd like her to be aware of how she looks in what's she's wearing, but not necessarily absorbed it in. If I'm going out on a first date for a coffee or a beer, if she's dressed to the 9's it's actually a turn off. I want my girl to be able to relax in her own skin and just be her. At the same time even if she's wearing a rugby shirt and jeans, they should fit and styled in a way that are flattering to her regardless of the fact that it's a rather casual style. But when it matters, I, and hopefully may date, can get dressed up and turn heads when the occasion calls for it. It's simply that I feel those occasions aren't rather frequent so there's not point in dressing like it. If the OP dressed the way she described whenever we went out, I'd likely not see her as girlfriend material. I want my girl to generally not care what I think of her. I want to be attracted to her because of her personality first.
Els Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 Kaylan: Speaking purely of my own preferences, I do personally view guys who pay THAT much attention to their own primping and dressing as less masculine. I don't know very many girls who prefer that to, say, a guy with simple clothes, no primping and a 6-pack. If you're going to spend all that effort and time and money, why not spend it on something that women like more, if your primary intention is to get girls with it? A man spending as much time as the average woman does on primping and dressing is going to be rewarded as much for it as the woman who spends as much time building muscle as male bodybuilders, in terms of positive attention from the majority of the opposite sex. A few will like it, but most would be 'meh' about it and many would dislike it. So why bother? Of course, if you're doing it for yourself, because you enjoy it, more power to you.
kaylan Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 (edited) Kaylan: Speaking purely of my own preferences, I do personally view guys who pay THAT much attention to their own primping and dressing as less masculine. I don't know very many girls who prefer that to, say, a guy with simple clothes, no primping and a 6-pack. If you're going to spend all that effort and time and money, why not spend it on something that women like more, if your primary intention is to get girls with it? A man spending as much time as the average woman does on primping and dressing is going to be rewarded as much for it as the woman who spends as much time building muscle as male bodybuilders, in terms of positive attention from the majority of the opposite sex. A few will like it, but most would be 'meh' about it and many would dislike it. So why bother? Of course, if you're doing it for yourself, because you enjoy it, more power to you. What is "that" much attention? I pick a shirt and pants before I go out...and a nice pair of shoes. Thats not any different than anyone else. I just enjoy shopping and buying new things to look nice in as well. I might even rock plugs in my ears that match my outfit. Thats not over the top. I dress as simple as the next guy, just my clothing is styled differently. Its not like I sit doing my nails, waxing, tanning, doing my eyebrows, etc, like metro dudes. Hell. back in my punk days I may have wore eyeliner, but I was far more grungy then and didnt give a crap about how I looked really. I dressed like a bum tbh. Doesnt matter to me if you view my desire to look good as less masculine. As I said, plenty of women dig my style and my physique. So it is what it is. And I dont spend a lot of money on clothing. Im super thrifty tbh. And why should I spend money on girls like more? First off, many women like many different things. Secondly, I dont let other people dictate my style of dress. Im spending money on what makes me feel good. Looking good and feeling good is what I spend my money on. Thats nice clothing, a gym membership, and the right foods and supplements. As much as you try to shame me for my preferences, it doesnt change the fact that I still get attention from girls. To try and draw a parallel to bodybuilding is highly stupid. Nothing of what I mentioned I wear in this thread is out of the ordinary, so you may wish most women dislike my style, but thats far from the truth. When the compliments stop, and when girls stop talking to me, then Ill give your opinion a minuscule amount of credence. You mad? Edited January 12, 2012 by kaylan
Els Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 (edited) What is "that" much attention? I pick a shirt and pants before I go out...and a nice pair of shoes. Thats not any different than anyone else. I just enjoy shopping and buying new things to look nice in as well. I might even rock plugs in my ears that match my outfit. Thats not over the top. I dress as simple as the next guy, just my clothing is styled differently. Its not like I sit doing my nails, waxing, tanning, doing my eyebrows, etc, like metro dudes. Hell. back in my punk days I may have wore eyeliner, but I was far more grungy then and didnt give a crap about how I looked really. I dressed like a bum tbh. Doesnt matter to me if you view my desire to look good as less masculine. As I said, plenty of women dig my style and my physique. So it is what it is. And I dont spend a lot of money on clothing. Im super thrifty tbh. And why should I spend money on girls like more? First off, many women like many different things. Secondly, I dont let other people dictate my style of dress. Im spending money on what makes me feel good. Looking good and feeling good is what I spend my money on. Thats nice clothing, a gym membership, and the right foods and supplements. As much as you try to shame me for my preferences, it doesnt change the fact that I still get attention from girls. To try and draw a parallel to bodybuilding is highly stupid. Nothing of what I mentioned I wear in this thread is out of the ordinary, so you may wish most women dislike my style, but thats far from the truth. When the compliments stop, and when girls stop talking to me, then Ill give your opinion a minuscule amount of credence. You mad? Whoa, why the defensiveness? That isn't reflective of someone who's truly confident in who he is, is it? If you're doing it for the primary purpose of making yourself feel good, as I said, more power to you. It's fine if you don't care what my preference in guys is - trust me, dressing up would not be the aspect of you that I dislike the most, based on your other posts. I simply chimed in with mine because you attempted to put down the people in this thread who disagreed with you, by somehow implying that they are abnormal/inexperienced/biased. I don't think they are. My estimate of how much time you spent primping was based on your comment on another thread that you spend as much time on your appearance as girls do. I assumed that meant hairstyling, accessories and tanning/waxing, as some guys do. I suppose you don't, then. My mistake. Edited January 12, 2012 by Elswyth
kaylan Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 (edited) Whoa, why the defensiveness? That isn't reflective of someone who's truly confident in who he is, is it? If you're doing it for the primary purpose of making yourself feel good, as I said, more power to you. It's fine if you don't care what my preference in guys is - trust me, dressing up would not be the aspect of you that I dislike the most, based on your other posts. I simply chimed in with mine because you attempted to put down the people in this thread who disagreed with you, by somehow implying that they are abnormal/inexperienced/biased. I don't think they are. Not defensive at all miss. Just responding to your post and addressing your points. Of course I expected a response like this that would seek to denounce my confidence. My responding to your comments doesnt make me defensive, Im just going along with the conversation. You make a statement, thereafter I make a statement. Its funny how you say more power to me, but before hand you were trying to rain down the hammer. Nice tactic I suppose. But thats makes all the "hating" you were doing before rather pointless then doesnt it? I mean thats if in fact you really are giving more power to me...aka giving props for doing what makes me feel good. And lol @ you disliking my posts. Im pretty sure most people on a forum would get along in real life. People wont bicker this much in the real world. And im pretty sure Id be buddies with a lot of the ladies But I love how you came down on me for countering the negative opinions of those you say I put down. I was just telling people not to hate on ones style. Simple. My estimate of how much time you spent primping was based on your comment on another thread that you spend as much time on your appearance as girls do. I assumed that meant hairstyling, accessories and tanning/waxing, as some guys do. I suppose you don't, then. My mistake. I can take about an hour to get ready to go out to the club. Maybe more depending how backed up I am on grooming for the week. That includes showering, doing a slight dread retwist, clipping nails, shaving my face, trimming my nether regions(gals dont like a forest), ironing my shirt if Im wearing a button down, and wiping down my shoes if they are dirty...plus other little things I may be forgetting. Nothing out of the ordinary and all that could easily take someone over an hour to do (male or female). Thats reserved for nights I really want to look my best though. Its hardly primping and most people do all those things. Men dont just throw anything on and take no time to get ready when we want to look really good...thats just a stereotype...if Im not caring too much about looking my best I can take 20 minutes to get ready. Shower, put clothes on, leave...but when I want to look my best and upkeep my body, it takes longer. Just depends on whos my audience for the evening. Edited January 12, 2012 by kaylan
Els Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 Its funny how you say more power to me, but before hand you were trying to rain down the hammer. Nice tactic I suppose. But thats makes all the "hating" you were doing before rather pointless then doesnt it? I mean thats if in fact you really are giving more power to me...aka props for doing what makes me feel good. You really do take people's preferences far too personally, don't you? I said that if a man's primary intention in taking lots of time to dress up is to get women, he should focus that effort elsewhere. Seeing as you don't fall in that category, what are you getting your panties all up in a bunch about? And lol @ you disliking my posts. Im pretty sure most people on a forum would get along in real life. People wont bicker this much in the real world. And im pretty sure Id be buddies with a lot of the ladies I sure hope so, for your sake. But I love how you came at me for countering the negative opinions of those you say I put down. I was just telling people not to hate on ones style. Simple. Stating one's preferences ISN'T 'hating on one's style', for pete's sake. And seriously, stop talking like a 13 y-o WoW player already. It isn't attractive.
kaylan Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 Lol it makes no sense to even respond to you any longer. The tone of your posts got you the response you received. How about you re-read what you are writing and understand why one would respond to you the way I did to when you stated your preference. Its not always about whats explicitly stated, but also added meaning behind the words. Many people dress to look presentable and attractive. My style works very well for me. End of story. http://www.threadbombing.com/data/media/73/I_aint_even_mad.jpg
Els Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 You reap what you sow, dear. How can you blame someone for judging you negatively when that's all that you've done around here? One cannot even state opinions without you coming on with the kiddy trash talk. But you're right, this isn't very productive. Ignored.
kaylan Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 Lmao, you have some selective memory dont you. Have fun with the ignoring. Call it kiddy trash talk if you wish...I just havent been able to take you seriously, so you wont really garner any of my better posts. Thats all it is. My bad hun
TaurusTerp Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 Elswyth stop trollin u just hatin on kaylan's confidence he has so much swag u aint even know. play on playa cant nobody see how insecure you are
Feelsgoodman Posted January 12, 2012 Posted January 12, 2012 I definitely notice the way a woman dresses, but I pay attention to the overall appearance...i.e. whether the outfit looks tasteful and feminine and whether it compliments her body. If she showed up wearing something garish like bright colors and excessive display of animal print, I would write it off as bad taste. I don't care if it's the latest trend and if that's what Lady Gaga wears...people with good taste can find a way to look stylish without blindly following the latest trends.
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