beachwrangler Posted January 7, 2012 Posted January 7, 2012 So I thought I was completely over my ex who I dated for two years. We broke up 4 months ago and in that time she has been in two relationships since then. One of them being with one of my old friends. She broke up with me btw. Well I ran into her and my old friend at the bar last night. First time I've seen her in almost 3 months. Hit me like a ton of bricks I still love this girl. I just smiled and said hey kept it really short. I then got a text late that night saying her and my old friend had broken up but got back together again recently because her head was a mess.Told me she was torn about me every single day, that it was really tough on her and wished none of this had ever happened. She just didn't want to go back to me and be unhappy again. She has been sending me texts for weeks before this saying she missed me, wanted me to come over and cuddle and wanted to try and win me back. I ignored them all but now after seeing her it's made me realize how much I still love her. The reason I kept in NC though is bc she cheated, lied and played me like a fool. It sucks bc I wish things could be different but I just know that will never happen. Back to NC.
Chi townD Posted January 7, 2012 Posted January 7, 2012 Oh, she was sending you texts weeks prior telling you that she missed you and wanted to cuddle and all of that? THEN, you see her out with someone else?!?! THEN, the texting explainig WHY she was out with another guy and how confused she is? Sounds like a guilty conscious to me!!!
coltsfan1 Posted January 7, 2012 Posted January 7, 2012 Back to NC. That is the plan stan, she feels terrible for what she did to you. hence the text messages, but she did it and now its over plain and simple. Take peace in the knowledge she will hopefully learn the bad end of that is you WON'T see it. But you will grow and another lady will reap that harvest! best of luck, we have all been there!
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