JaneyAmazed Posted January 7, 2012 Posted January 7, 2012 I thought I'd check in because I am so much happier today than I was a year ago today. It was the second weekend in January last year that I confessed to my H about my 4 month affair. You know my struggles over the last year but they don't compare to my H's struggles. We have survived a year, and we are stronger as a couple and closer than we have been in years. It hasn't been easy and there have been many tears, and but I am so thankful to be where I am today.I wish you all a happy new year. Thank God 2011 is over!!! Here's to many happy, drama-free, years for you all. Take care of those you love.
Philosoraptor Posted January 7, 2012 Posted January 7, 2012 Very glad that things worked out and the two of you found your path. I wish you continued peace and happiness.
Gentlegirl Posted January 7, 2012 Posted January 7, 2012 I have read about your struggles and you husband's as well. My one year NC was 23rd December. I am much happier than I was then also. It has been a long lonely struggle. I do not have a close adult relationship in my life and since I lost my husband of 32 years, it's been a bleak world at times. Becoming accustomed to being totally alone at 64 is a challenge indeed. YOU DO still have your husband you are so very fortunate. Owl recently said to me that we should forget how long it's been and concentrate on the future. However, the human brain has its own in built calendar and we will remember significant events whether we want to or not. Anyway, enough of my waffle. Celebrate that you are free from the A and that your marriage has survived and is better. All my very best, GG
LadyGrey Posted January 7, 2012 Posted January 7, 2012 Congrats Janey! I wish you continued happiness in your life and marriage.
East7 Posted January 8, 2012 Posted January 8, 2012 Happy that it worked out for you Janey. Unlike me with xMW, your xOM didn't love you enough to want a future with you, so you haven't lost anything. Your LS Story is a perfect example of 2 great lessons in relationships : 1/Never take your partner for granted and 2/Cheating is the most lame way to escape the relationship problems.
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