irc333 Posted January 7, 2012 Posted January 7, 2012 With the slew of recent posts about the risks of making advances, approaches, etc to women we barely know in public or wherever....we can see this has become problematic. Some men say to be aware of how a woman may feel about your approaching her in a manner that might come off as creepy. That as men, WE should be aware, that since women, children and the elderly are easy targets, even though, as men, we have a clean record, should be careful in our approaches. Typically, just getting to know the woman in a group setting witha social circle of friends where you can get to know each other if you know you might see each other on a ROUTINE basis. That simply talking a complete strange woman you hardly know that's sitting quietly in a coffee shop, might be off putting, and just leave it to the professionals. LOL That, being aware of a "how a woman may feel" is the key to success in getting dates? Yes no? BUT.....on the opposite end of the spectrum, as someone mentioned in previous posts about this topic....."Fortune favors the bold" That, there's nothing manly about the above that I just mentioned, and just keep doing what you're doing with cold approaches with women you hardly know. That having a network of friends in a social circle is optional or supplemental means of meeting women. That having OTHER friends that can vouche for your character, might not be necessary. My friend, who has used the former method (getting into the mind of a woman), claims he's achieved success by having a slew of women feel comfortable with him, even to the point where female friends are inviting him to evens, where there's more women than men , maybe even only HIM alone with a bunch of women. They love the fact he doesn't "hit on them" as HE puts it, and I'm like "ummm...okay....they think you're gay?? lol" But., he eventually found himself a girlfriend. He tends to laugh at how other men's traditional cold approaches aren't working, and well.....he's telling ME that if I keep doing what THEY do, it's my funeral. So that being said, what say you about these 2 methods? Stranger approach or achieve familiarity first?? Feedback?
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