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Will a girl have the same emotional attachment to you if you break hymen?

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93TheHitStick Established Member

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I have heard that if you take a girls virginity she will be really attached to you afterwards.

 

I have never been with a virgin though so i wouldn't know.

 

Today i almost had sex with my girlfriend. She is a virgin. But she got scared after i broke her hymen and begged me to stop.

 

But things don't really seem different between us. So is just breaking her hymen the same thing? Or do you gotta finish?

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No, just because you break a girls hymen doesn't mean she will be attached/more attracted to you. However, when a woman has sex with a man, she does release a hormone that does make her feel more bonded to that man. However, that has no connection to breaking her hymen. And it isn't absolute even that she will be more bonded to you. I was not more attached to the guy that broke mine. I liked him and all but I never fell in love with him.

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when a woman has sex with a man, she does release a hormone that does make her feel more bonded to that man.

 

If that were actually true, hookers would be in love with all of their customers. Oh, wait, they DO tell the men they love them, that they are the biggest, the best, the sexiest blah blah blah...:laugh:

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I have heard that if you take a girls virginity she will be really attached to you afterwards.

 

I have never been with a virgin though so i wouldn't know.

 

Today i almost had sex with my girlfriend. She is a virgin. But she got scared after i broke her hymen and begged me to stop.

 

But things don't really seem different between us. So is just breaking her hymen the same thing? Or do you gotta finish?

 

 

You "almost" had sex? I think you had sex, you just didn't finish.

 

I broke mine playing sports when I was really young so I really can't answer to the hymen thing. None of my friends is still seeing the guys they lost their V cards to if that makes a difference. Only one of them still pines for the guy.

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If that were actually true, hookers would be in love with all of their customers.

 

It is generally true but, like everything else in life, it is not universally true. There are exceptions to every rule. Besides, hookers are emotionally jaded when it comes to sex. It's just business to them, there is no relationship involved. Any hooker will tell you that she feels completely numb during sex; she's not doing it for pleasure, she's doing it for money.

 

And no one ever said it makes people fall in love. It just increases feelings of emotional attachment. That's why it's called the bonding hormone. Most women are affected by it, but some women are not. If you're one of the women who isn't affected by it, that's great, but don't make the mistake of thinking that your experience is universal.

 

I have heard that if you take a girls virginity she will be really attached to you afterwards.

 

Some women become very attached to their partner after losing their virginity, yes. But some women don't. Either way, the change is not drastic or immediate. It's not like the girl suddenly becomes a clinger immediately after having sex for the first time.

 

But things don't really seem different between us. So is just breaking her hymen the same thing? Or do you gotta finish?

 

Why would breaking her hymen make things different between you? It's the bonding experience of sex that makes people feel closer to each other, and the release of hormones during orgasm. Poking her for a second doesn't really accomplish that.

 

Do you want her to feel more attached to you? If so, there are other ways of creating a closer bond with her. Affection and intimacy go a long way.

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Only one of them still pines for the guy.

 

I still pine for my guy if it makes any difference.

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Dust Established Member

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A woman will always pine for the guy who did the most to them. So breaking her hymens a good start!

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I still pine for my guy if it makes any difference.

 

Aw. How long ago was that? Was it a long lasting thing? My one friend who pines dated the guy for almost three years and I don't think she's ever gotten over it.

 

A woman will always pine for the guy who did the most to them. So breaking her hymens a good start!

 

:laugh:

 

My first now has a pube-stash and a Howie Mandel goutee so I'm really not missing out on anything.

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:laugh:

 

My first now has a pube-stash and a Howie Mandel goutee so I'm really not missing out on anything.

 

When you said pube-stash I thought of him having a stash of pubes... not a mustache that lookes like pubes...

 

Maybe he kept a stash of your pubes... most guys love blonde pubes

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No the attachment towards my ex Bf started before he broke it (the sex just added even more emotions). Present-day, I don't really feel nothing towards him and happily didn't answered his Happy New Year phone calls.

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I don't have room in my life to retain an attachment to someone that just happened to be the first guy I decided to have sex with. He's a nice guy but I can't say I feel anything for him.

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I don't have room in my life to retain an attachment to someone that just happened to be the first guy I decided to have sex with. He's a nice guy but I can't say I feel anything for him.

 

Don't worry Pyro is working on traveling back in time to be your first. kinda like in the time travlers wife............................

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No the attachment towards my ex Bf started before he broke it (the sex just added even more emotions). Present-day, I don't really feel nothing towards him and happily didn't answered his Happy New Year phone calls.

 

With all due respect, I don't who you are kidding or trying convince, because according to your past, you are still very much attached to your ex': http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t273125/ - maybe you "don't exactly love" him, but you are freakishly close to him.

 

Maybe the thread I linked is old and things have changed, but I'm getting the feeling it didn't.

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I think you two kids need to take a refresher course in biology. Seems you both have no clue what you're doing.

 

Biology is the study of life. They teach you nothing about sex.

 

Seems like you have no clue what you are talking about.

 

Oh and i know exactly what i am doing.

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A woman will always pine for the guy who did the most to them. So breaking her hymens a good start!

 

Funny. I pine for the young, mostly happy woman I was, before I got my heart broken.

samsungxoxo Established Member

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Biology is the study of life. They teach you nothing about sex.
That's right if you're still in middle or high school then they teach you nothing but same old abstinence crap. On the films they always focus on a girl saying no or a girl that didn't waited and got pregnant.

 

The real sex education happens in a University or college. I took human sexuality behavior for my former major which was psychology. That's where they fully teach you everything (without any details missing)... and yes even the graphic stuff.

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