otherfish Posted January 6, 2012 Posted January 6, 2012 ....that there is a connection/link to why some dumpers will eventually make contact and while others wont? In my specific relationship, my ex (dumper) is a very unforgiving person, one who justifies everything to her behalf and seems to waller in her hurt/pain. She has so much pride/ego that I really dont believe that she will ever make contact. Its been 2 weeks NC for me after a 3.5 year relationship. I did everything in my power to make sure that she would never forget me (in a good way) but she is a tough nut to crack! Thoughts/Opinions......
Philosoraptor Posted January 6, 2012 Posted January 6, 2012 The ones who never contact either find inner peace and have no need to, or find inner peace and are too ashamed to. The ones who do contact find inner peace and apologize and rarely want to make another go at things... or take no time to mature and want to keep you as a backup or hurt you just enough to keep you holding on. In the end it comes down to self control and maturity.
Author otherfish Posted January 6, 2012 Author Posted January 6, 2012 Understood, philo! Based on your words, I have a very slim chance that my dumper will ever see the light, realize her mistake, contact me and we live happily ever after? If so, that really sucks. Over 3 years of my life, for what, to never see her again. On a side note, where in MD, im in Towson.
Philosoraptor Posted January 6, 2012 Posted January 6, 2012 I'm about 15 minutes away from you near Pikesville. They may see the light but that light most likely wont lead them back.
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