darkmoon Posted January 5, 2012 Posted January 5, 2012 I go to a cafe, made friends with a guy. He has been horrible once before, two years ago - racist, made a bad joke - but I forgave him. he has been unsupportive lately, but he couldnt see it instead he bullied me a bit, BUT then he went on about the cafe saying unspeakable things about the food and the cook - who is a dear person. I went into neutral, he woudn't know I've had enough of him and I prefer alot of the other people who go to the cafe. I like the food alot and he nearly ruined my pleasure I told the cook what he said, silly me - so this friend will be angry. I know him, he will make me wrong and want to win THIS time too. I just want to drop him and enjoy other lighter company at the cafe - he gets dropped alot actually. He tells me, aggreived.
Sw3etdev1L Posted January 6, 2012 Posted January 6, 2012 (edited) I would say, just stop worrying about this negative person in your life and hang out with people who give you sanity, and peace of mind. You can just hang around with the people who do want to be around and if he arrives to the cafe just greet him and keep on with your conversation. You could say "look mr, I see we are not compatible therefore I think I should go with my crowd and you with yours", but... how long have you been knowing this person?, if you have known him quite a while maybe a chat would be the best. Edited January 6, 2012 by Sw3etdev1L
Author darkmoon Posted January 7, 2012 Author Posted January 7, 2012 he used to be okay - i rung him - he has been told but thanks
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