Freddys Posted January 4, 2012 Posted January 4, 2012 Hi guys, After some months chasing a girl, i completely stopped (suddently) pursuing her and it worked. She had her girl friends "begging" me to re-connect, she called me herself but off course her words wasn't too direct. She is in love with me, but i can see she is too insecure and jealous. We had a phone call talk lately and she was dying to know why i did disappear and if there is any other woman in my life. The feelings are mutual, but i can see she won't accept any date after this long period of space i "gave" her. She wants so much to see me but only with her girl friends. She really can't trust me, although she knows i always speak the truth. What should i do? Looks like she still prefers playing games . . .
ditzchic Posted January 4, 2012 Posted January 4, 2012 It kind of sounds like she is more interested in the attention you give her than you. She isn't in love with you. This isn't how people in love with someone act. I recommend you give her a whole lot of space for the rest of your life. She isn't worth it.
spice4life Posted January 4, 2012 Posted January 4, 2012 It sounds like your relationship is built on game playing. Unless there were legitimate circumstances that caused her to keep her distance, there really isn't an excuse. If by chance there was a reason for it, then you need to stop playing hard to get and just come out and ask her what's on her mind. If love really is involved there is no reason why the two of you can't be straight with each other. On the other hand, when a guy disappears on a woman, she assumes he is just not that into her and she puts a wall up for protecton. If you disappeared to get her attention then it's your job to break down the wall. Put the games aside and just be real.
silvermercy Posted January 4, 2012 Posted January 4, 2012 Obviously she loves the attention, not you. (Months!?!? Are you crazy?)
AH1990 Posted January 5, 2012 Posted January 5, 2012 .....On the other hand, when a guy disappears on a woman, she assumes he is just not that into her and she puts a wall up for protecton. If you disappeared to get her attention then it's your job to break down the wall. Put the games aside and just be real. Been in that situation before. Happened a long time ago (I was 16). She started playing games the same games with me. I didn't care much at all for it and just left. Then 2-3 months go by with no contact and low and behold she has her friends trying to contact me over and over again. At that time I had a new GF and it just so happened that they went to the same school, so that all got sorted out
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