hancock Posted January 4, 2012 Posted January 4, 2012 Okay its like this, met this girl little over 2 months now, met her at a party. We are not from the same town or anything and live far but we are both from the same ethnic roots. Anyhow here is the story, the week after the party i was still in her town for work for one week so i asked if she would meet me, she agreed but then cancelled as she was changing jobs that week and had to do a handover. So i did not get to meet her but we still messaged through blackberry, at the end of the week she said sorry on her part for it being a messed up week and that she was unable to meet me. I then went on holiday to China and Hong Kong, but messaged her on and off while away but our messages were not in sync with each others due to the time difference. Anyway fast forward we still messaging and i have asked if i can call her as she passed me her number at the party, i have tried calling her couple of times now and she has not answered. So she then messages and says she was out , also if i send her a message on blackberry i can tell she has read it straight away but will take forever to reply , so i sort of do the same. I sent her a really sweet new years message which she really liked and said i was sweet, I then asked her a couple of days ago if we could chat on the phone , she replied and said yes we should talk but asked if it was okay for the next day. So the next day i message her Good morning she does not reply me till the evening, the says she is out for dinner. So i just messaged her to enjoy and if she wants to chat later she can message me, she did not message me so i just ignored her the next day and decided to just move on. The next day after that she messages me : Morning Telecom man , so i replied her after 3hrs as she makes me wait, but i kept my reply simple : Morning Advertising Woman, she replied me with a laugh and smile so i just her smile icon never went into asking her how her day is as i know she probably make me wait for her reply. Now i am confused, if she is not interested then no need to message me, should i ignore her a little as it seems when i do she then messages me . or just move on coz she is playing games, I do know she has been through a tough time previously so is she just being cautious, or maybe the distance is a factor, I am going to go to her town this month for a weekend as i have friends there , i dont know if should say can we meet up as still dont know if she wants to get to know me? your answers thanks
Philosoraptor Posted January 4, 2012 Posted January 4, 2012 Games are for children. Move on, don't play them, and find someone a bit more mature.
Author hancock Posted January 4, 2012 Author Posted January 4, 2012 I think i will just ignore her and move on, if she wants to get in touch she can make the effort
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