xpaperxcutx Posted January 4, 2012 Posted January 4, 2012 I'm not going to bring the past years drama into the new year but one thing I'm noticing more and more of is that men don't want to actually date. For some reason they've all become prolific writers and spend half their time in cyberspace trying to dupe women into being penpals. Why guys, why?
chryssy83 Posted January 4, 2012 Posted January 4, 2012 I'm not a guy. But there are some who want to date....maybe try meeting guys in real life? I've never found one of the pen pal types....even the ones I met online wanted to meet in person pretty quickly.
Dust Posted January 4, 2012 Posted January 4, 2012 I wonder if you're talking about me? I thought we were just aquantences...
chryssy83 Posted January 4, 2012 Posted January 4, 2012 Dust--- don't hijack this thread from the OP!! Also OP--do you suggest meeting these fellows?
monkey00 Posted January 4, 2012 Posted January 4, 2012 Well I guess you could suggest to meet up in IRL, if they haven't suggested it yet?
Dust Posted January 4, 2012 Posted January 4, 2012 Dust--- don't hijack this thread from the OP!! Also OP--do you suggest meeting these fellows? Sounds like something a moderator would say... Well I guess you could suggest to meet up in IRL, if they haven't suggested it yet? Yes first post had that suggestion. Though can't hurt to hear it from more then one person.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted January 4, 2012 Author Posted January 4, 2012 I wonder if you're talking about me? I thought we were just aquantences... Are we? I barely spoken more than three words to you until now. I find that I've been doing most if the work... giving out my number and dialling the phone. I feel like I'm more ' man' than men are. And yes ihave asked to meet then ended up planning the whole date. Next thing you know. I might end up with the tab.
Dust Posted January 4, 2012 Posted January 4, 2012 Are we? I barely spoken more than three words to you until now. I find that I've been doing most if the work... giving out my number and dialling the phone. I feel like I'm more ' man' than men are. And yes ihave asked to meet then ended up planning the whole date. Next thing you know. I might end up with the tab. well it is customary for the person who picked the place and did the inviting to pay the tab...
chryssy83 Posted January 4, 2012 Posted January 4, 2012 "Sounds like something a moderator would say..." Or Tony, perhaps?? Ummm....I think that OP is finding wussy guys somehow. The guys always suggested to meet me pretty quickly. I think it's the difference between people who are online to date and people who only date online. If that makes any sense?
Author xpaperxcutx Posted January 4, 2012 Author Posted January 4, 2012 well it is customary for the person who picked the place and did the inviting to pay the tab... As a working dsgirl ill gladly split the bill. Orthey get dinner I get dessert.
phineas Posted January 4, 2012 Posted January 4, 2012 Once I find a website with a positive ratio of women who DON'T have "friends first" in their profile i'll join up & see how it goes.
mammamia1 Posted January 4, 2012 Posted January 4, 2012 One thing that people don't think about: Many guys are not really single. I've seen this happened a lot. What's the chance that that gorgeous, well-educated, tall, funny guy you really wish to meet isn't taken yet? Lol. Hence the endless back and forth, fooling around, then you may finally get to "date" him when his gf/wife is out of town, or you can become something "on the side"
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