kaylan Posted January 19, 2012 Posted January 19, 2012 My testosterone is much higher now in late 30s than in my 20s, reason being better lifestyle and cleaner living. A majority of my friends are exactly the same, so your testosterone theory is inaccurate IMO. If a man continued the 20s partying lifestyle into his 30s and beyond, then sure, low testosterone could be a problem, but likely not the most serious problem the guy would have. Repetitive, boring lifestyle and stress are the real culprits, and low testosterone could be a symptom of those granted. But if you are looking towards the factor that does the most damage to men over time in terms of attitude and appearance, look to stress. To the question, I don't consider engaging with women to be "risky" any more than I consider going into a restaurant and saying "table for three" risky. I do screen women more carefully before approaching now in middle age. I can pretty much tell by mannerisms, dress and listening to her whether a particular woman and I have a chance of being compatible. Youre kidding right? Go read some actual scientific fact. Male testostrone peaks in mid 20s and plateus until your early or mid thirties and steadily declines after that.Despite an active lifestyle and working out helping to raise T levels, theres no way a late 30s man has more Test levels than someone in his 20s.
Ross MwcFan Posted January 19, 2012 Posted January 19, 2012 Older men don't have the testosterone that makes them aggressive, ambitious and highly sexed. They have more estrogen, which is the female hormone, so they become passive and fat. Sad. Ten years isn't much of an age gap. I draw the line at about 15 years younger for me. That's pretty much how I am (and always have been), apart from the highly sexed part, I wonder if it means that I have low testosterone levels?
PinkInTheLimo Posted January 19, 2012 Posted January 19, 2012 I still think Women have more options. Going by your own description of yourself, you should be able to snag any guy you want IMHO, even Brad Pitt. But then again I never met you in real life so maybe there is something there that doesnt show itself in the forums Nothing wrong with me in real life. It's just difficult to meet guys who are decent and available, and compatible. I work in a big organisation but the men I meet there are either married or gay. So the only option are dating sites and I find that most men don't meet my standards. And that's not because of their looks. But I am picky for other things like age (want someone close to my age) and level of education, and character. I don't want to make a mistake.
PinkInTheLimo Posted January 19, 2012 Posted January 19, 2012 whereas women over a certain age tend to want men around their own age. Honestly I was never attracted to much older or younger men, at any age.
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