xxHollyxx Posted January 3, 2012 Posted January 3, 2012 I am at a loss here... My boyfriend is moving away. He has to move away for work, for the next few years. Unfortunately, I can’t go with him. I also will take a job in a different country in a few months. We are both young and have many dreams in life that don’t work with each other. Long story short, we have to break up. How do I cope? I will miss him so much. I am just so upset and feel miserable. I haven’t spoken to him about what will happen next. I can’t bring myself to. I don’t want to be with anyone else but I worry I will be lonely. I live in a very isolating place and everything reminds me of him. It seems like a huge task to force yourself to get over someone who hasn’t dumped you. Or hurt you. Any other time I had to get over someone, it was because they were bad for me. Has anyone ever been in this situation? What can I do to help myself? Do we stay in contact, or out of contact. Any advice appreciated...
betterdeal Posted January 4, 2012 Posted January 4, 2012 A bit of none contact may be good to help you "grieve" your loss, and some time alone (not lonely) is probably also a good idea, rather than getting into a new relationship. See it as time to grow and be yourself for a bit. It won't be forever, just for now. Don't be sad it's over, be happy it happened
Author xxHollyxx Posted January 5, 2012 Author Posted January 5, 2012 Thank you for your reply, I will remember that.... I guess I am happy it happened, but very upset it will end. Very soon I won't see him again. Has anyone been in a similar situation before? What did you do?
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