Baxton Posted December 31, 2011 Posted December 31, 2011 Ok so I have felt strong until right now. NC almost a week...then she sends me a text yesterday about some garbage, I don't respond. Then again tonight at 11:30. 1). Hey? 2) Really? 3) Whatever act like you haven't gotten these texts that's cool WTF I know I can't but I want to answer so bad. What does she want? Is she sorry? Does she think she made a mistake? Why does a few text messages have the ability to get my heart racing like this and make me so unsure of myself?
PoppyLove89 Posted December 31, 2011 Posted December 31, 2011 These are called 'Breadcrumbs'...she's merely texting you to see if you'd still respond. Think about it, if you were desperate to get someone back having realised you've made a terrible mistake wouldn't you pour your heart out in that text? Or better yet, wouldn't you call her and tell her everything? She wants to know that she still has you on an emotional string, her just-in-case, and you don't deserve that!!! Stay NC. If she's serious about what she's got to say/what she's feeling, she'll be persistent! Don't be lured in only to be crushed. STAY NC & STAY STRONG. There's dignity in silence
wilsonx Posted December 31, 2011 Posted December 31, 2011 Baxton All those questions you ask her, you are asking yourself, so ask yourself... What do you want? Are you sorry? Does she think I made a mistake?
Desensitized Posted December 31, 2011 Posted December 31, 2011 Do. Not. Respond. Go for a run, go to sleep, do something! Just do not respond... difficult, not impossible.
Purewil1 Posted December 31, 2011 Posted December 31, 2011 If you respond b prepared for the worst. IMHO I would rather have a message with substance that gives a definite answers to the questions you have, or at least some direction. But her response is more like something I would send to a friend not a loved one. Just my thoughts.
EgoJoe Posted December 31, 2011 Posted December 31, 2011 Don't ask yourself or her anything right now. Pretend she doesn't exist while you get your head straight. Come here to vent. In time you will be ready to face the pain and sort things out.
wilsonx Posted December 31, 2011 Posted December 31, 2011 Egojoe, when he asks these questions, hes self talking, hes already asking the questions. He needs to figure them out on his own, I just pointed it out for him what he was asking himself. If we were to give him the answers, he still wouldnt understand until he figures them out on his own. We can tell him to NC, tell her to F off, the problem is he needs to talk this through to himself
Chi townD Posted January 3, 2012 Posted January 3, 2012 BREADCRUMBS!!! She's pulling on the leash to see of the dog is still there. She's trying to tick you off into responding. Don't do it. Let her stew in her frustrations. Takes too much energy on your part.
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