xpaperxcutx Posted December 31, 2011 Posted December 31, 2011 - pay more attention to actions than words. - have more standards/ not settle - avoid the need to text so goddamn much ( this is a bad habit of mine) - not be afraid to be more proactive
USMCHokie Posted December 31, 2011 Posted December 31, 2011 - get over my stupid race hurdle - be significantly more proactive with women instead of automatically assuming they aren't interested and doing nothing - learn to swim good
jobaba Posted December 31, 2011 Posted December 31, 2011 In 2012, I will... 1) Do all that is possible with the 6,052 hours (factoring 7 hours of sleep) to improve Jobaba in the best possible way. 2) Meet the ugliest, poorest woman in the city who likes Woody Allen movies and John Coltrane and has a heart of gold and sweep her off her feet 3) Not give a sh@t what any of my snobby yuppie friends think about #2. 4) Spend less time on Loveshack Dating Forums
runner Posted December 31, 2011 Posted December 31, 2011 - get back to my friends/family quicker; be more available
lululucy Posted December 31, 2011 Posted December 31, 2011 - buy my ticket to England - learn how to not be afraid of my feelings and the potential they have to be rejected - figure out how to be happy
cerridwen Posted December 31, 2011 Posted December 31, 2011 - get back to my friends/family quicker; be more available I'd appreciate that. In 2012, I will... Find that other shoe. Learn to play guitar. Not yell when the plastic produce bags in the grocery store stick together and won't easily open. Start laying the ground work for consulting. Visit two continents. Learn Russian.
runner Posted December 31, 2011 Posted December 31, 2011 I'd appreciate that. head start ! - get back to my friends/family quicker; be more available .......additionally, by means of not being so much of a work-a-holic
somedude81 Posted December 31, 2011 Posted December 31, 2011 -Not hang out with women that I have feelings for and not in a relationship with. She says no, I'm out the do.. -Not wait so long to let my intentions be known. -Might as well try some new approaches with women and do things I'm currently not comfortable with.
Pizzaman81 Posted December 31, 2011 Posted December 31, 2011 - try not to over burden myself with the numerous dates I get - pick the right woman this time
shayla Posted December 31, 2011 Posted December 31, 2011 In 2012 I will: Listen to me and trust me before anything or anyone else Find and keep my voice in my relationships Revisit my hobbies and develop the passion I used to have for them Learn another language Break the habit of being unhappy
MrNate 2.0 Posted December 31, 2011 Posted December 31, 2011 -Get these lesions on my liver treated, so I can heal -Gain my weight back and get swole -Kick start my business and go fulltime -Grow my fro out -Get my next two tattoos -Say 'yes' more often -Widen my circle of peeps -Take more risks -Women, of course -Move to Florida It's kind of cool seeing things out in front like this.
Jynxx Posted December 31, 2011 Posted December 31, 2011 -crush my competition even harder -become financially set for life -travel more -find a new hobby -buy my first car -stay awesome -try to get a couple FWB relationships
oaks Posted December 31, 2011 Posted December 31, 2011 - spend less time here now that I have a gf. - spend more time on the hobbies that I neglected when I was too busy being 'available' for dating. (It's easier to plan my social life now - I just ask my girlfriend when I'm free. )
betterdeal Posted December 31, 2011 Posted December 31, 2011 Budget! Set myself a living expenses budget and live within it.Visit a hitherto unvisited countryRemember all my nephews and nieces birthdays, and buy them presentsLose 2" off my waistlineGet out moreSingDanceSkipLaughCryLove
Author xpaperxcutx Posted January 4, 2012 Author Posted January 4, 2012 Thank you guys for the list... I really enjoyed and bedt of luck to each and everyone one of you.
kiss_andmakeup Posted January 4, 2012 Posted January 4, 2012 -Be more assertive and demanding (mostly in work and social environments, not really in my relationship); I'm too much of a pushover. -Smile at everyone -Save more money!! This is a big one. :]
Celestine Posted January 4, 2012 Posted January 4, 2012 - Be more compassionate. - Be true to myself. It's okay not be okay. - No casual sex. - Not go out with a guy I'm not into just for the sake of dating someone. - Stop playing a game. - Worry less. - Work on issues from my childhood. - Be the best friend I can possibly be to my friends!
runner Posted January 4, 2012 Posted January 4, 2012 another point i need to work on, which is super difficult for me but i must give it a shot: ie, try not to bite off more than i can chew. sometimes i feel like i set the bar a bit too high for myself; make promises that i probably shouldn't have; and leave myself on the verge of burn out, more often than not, and probably more than necessary. ugh. so for 2012, gonna work on a healthier, more balanced lifestyle...while keeping things interesting. - Be more compassionate. - Be true to myself. It's okay not be okay. - No casual sex. - Not go out with a [girl] I'm not into just for the sake of dating someone. - Stop playing a game. - Worry less. - Work on issues from my childhood. - Be the best friend I can possibly be to my friends! ^ as well as the above !
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