Author ditzchic Posted January 3, 2012 Author Posted January 3, 2012 BINGO! I like one night stands with women Im attracted to and I take offense with people who deem me a bad person in any way for my life choice. You're not a bad person. You're just not getting it in with me. And on the off chance that you get me hopped up enough for me to make a bad decision, you're only worth the one night to me. Don't expect to come back for more. I've written you off as a horrible decision and moved on.
Surrealist Posted January 3, 2012 Posted January 3, 2012 BINGO! I dont understand these people who pass negative judgments on others simply because they dont want the same thing they want. I like one night stands with women Im attracted to and I take offense with people who deem me a bad person in any way for my life choice. Do you make it clear to any woman you pursue for a ONS that you have no further interest in them other than sex? Do you engage any of these women with assurances or compliments that you know you're not serious about and won't follow through on? Now not saying you are a player of this nature, but many guys are? Many guys outright lie and deceive such women to get laid. This therefore contradicts your first point about someone not wanting the same thing you want because what you indicated that you want, was not true. In this instance, given the woman has not had the guy's true intentions made known to her, the woman is led to believe she is in the beginning stages of something more solid and lasting than a ONS. Much to her confusion and disappointment, the guy walks and doesn't call her back again, or such similar outcome. Then she is on forums like this asking why guys are such users and jerks. This is not an attack on guys btw. The women here are equally responsible and unless they want a ONS, should be keeping their wits and not capitulating to the guy's sexual offering. So while it may be your "life choice", if in the process of choosing you manipulate, lie and deceive to get what you want, then yep, you are a bad person.
musemaj11 Posted January 4, 2012 Posted January 4, 2012 You're not a bad person. You're just not getting it in with me. And on the off chance that you get me hopped up enough for me to make a bad decision, you're only worth the one night to me. Don't expect to come back for more. I've written you off as a horrible decision and moved on. Do you make it clear to any woman you pursue for a ONS that you have no further interest in them other than sex? Do you engage any of these women with assurances or compliments that you know you're not serious about and won't follow through on? Do you guys even know what ONS is? The women I had ONS with I met them at bars, at parties, on trips, etc. I didnt go on a date with them, giving false promises, had sex with them on the same night, and never spoke to them again.
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