Awarth Posted December 30, 2011 Posted December 30, 2011 So, just wanna update on whatever happens to me; anyway, long story short, its been almost 3 months since my 5 yrs GF dumped me for another guy( if u wan u can go read my story). So yesterday, she suddenly SMS me asking how was i doing~i didnot reply immediately as i was busy. we exchange a few msg, thats when i found out that she has been having a few fights with the new guy.. then the interesting part come, after she tells me that they have a few fight, i told her in a neutral tone, saying that "couples fight, of course its natural to have a few arguments". I am just trying to be passive about it, then she told me that she found out that i really dote on her when we were together, and says that "other guys just wont do the same". i did not really comment on that, after a few more msg, i told her i need go to do something and bail~ So, it seems like it is really true that after the honeymoon period, the ex starts to have second thoughts about the new dude. But don't worry, i won't fall for her trick again~i know that this does not mean that she wants to come back~so i am just going to see what she will do after more fights with the guy..so far, it does seem like she is following through the "standard rebound behaviour" as described in so many sites and forums~ CHeers everyone~and happy new year~
wilsonx Posted December 30, 2011 Posted December 30, 2011 She doesnt want to come back, this is the 3 month anger of a GIGS breakup. She needs to release some anger. Now that shes done it, go back to NC and stay there until you heal. Dont be her emotional tampon.
smokey bear Posted December 30, 2011 Posted December 30, 2011 See if i could be bothered i could write down exactly the prediction of what she'll do next, All the information you need is on this site, good luck
wilsonx Posted December 30, 2011 Posted December 30, 2011 See if i could be bothered i could write down exactly the prediction of what she'll do next, All the information you need is on this site, good luck youre so mean so im going to do it. let me see Her next step is shes going to want to vent all her guilt, this will come in a couple months, you can either stick to NC or talk to her. Shes not going to play any games, shes going to tell you you are a good guy and to move on with your life. Do exactly that, do not chase her after she says this
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